my brothers life is going no where, should I advice him or not
Has yet to have a job beyond 6 months, keeps getting fired for lack of performance in job, no drivers license, always broken, but decided to join a band even though he has no music training and this band is not paying it's members. He now turns job offers down because it conflicts with practice. I have offered to pay him one night a week to watch kids while I go to a church meeting , he said no because of band practice.
He dates married women. goes to bars.
He is a 36 year old single guy on welfare.
He just called me begging me for money or food, because he is broke.
What advice should I give him?