I want my child support, and I don't care if you lose everything you own. I'm the mom, so I'm more important....edit

[Anonymous]

When someone addresses and ends the issue of women who milk their ex's bank account dry every month collecting "child support" (aka) I dont' wanna work after me and you split up, so you are gonna support me even though I'm a heinous bitch...THEN I will get upset if I see someone buying candy/cupcakes/what the fuck ever with a Food stamp card.

Sure, some women deserve and need their child support money....other's do not. If you make enough money to supprt your kids, and your child is spending enough time with both parents, why the fuck are you bleeding him dry in child support? Because you're bitter? WHY?

It really saddens me that as women, some of you demand child support from the men, yet in the same breath say that you're an independant woman who doesn't need a man to get by. Well, apparently you do, and it makes us all look bad.

I honestly can't say which I detest more...the one's who are determined to get enough money from some poor bastard to buy their kids (and themselves,let's be real) all kind of toys, electronics, vacations, etc. OR the ones who just don't let the guy see the kid, all because you guys aren't together anymore.  LET it go...stop making women look desperate and clingy. 

Bad husband/boyfriend/partner does not always = bad dad/parent. Stop being greedy and spiteful.

Ok, I'm done.

No, I don't get child support for my son. Why should I? I can afford to take care of him. No, my DH doesn't have any other kids and is not paying child support. Not everyone who thinks that women are shitty for breaking their exes bank account are jaded or bitter from a  man. Get over it.

[1stpreggers]

Lol nope I'm cleaning his ass out in child support!

[TattoodMommy19]

I'm not greedy or spiteful.
Sometimes he pays $23 whole dollars a month!! Bet he's really suffering.

Why does it matter if the woman makes enough to do without the support or if he gets visitation? According to the law, both parents have an equal obligation of support. Meaning he should legally and morally be helping to financially support the child he helped create.

I'm not sure why you take issue with this.

[areyouatroll]

It's a parents responsibility to support their kid.

[mommyof11050307]

While I don't think they should be bled dry the other parent needs to pay cs.

[DeeDee_28]

Sounds like it 😉

Quoting Anonymous:

Are you a stepmom?

[xXxLillithxXx]

Shit I wish I got my 200 dollars a month. That'll be the day.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Anonymous:

you married a man that has to pay child support to his ex didn't you???

No, but i did date a man once that went through this. I do not receive child support for my son. I chose not to.

[JZB]

Hmmm...ya...um alrighty then

[Elle.tea.22]

This is why CS isn't for me. If we ever split I can afford this child, putting him through private school and college, etc so why take money that isn't mine? If he wants to give it to our kid , go ahead. Open an account for him? Be my guest. Spend it on him on your own time? Sure. If I had to pay child support for x or y reason I would but unless my kid was in need I wouldn't take his dad's money and in that case I'd support needs with receipts. Yay accountability of expenses :)

[randi1978]

My ex husband is worth more dead than alive.

I wouldn't care if it was $50 a month, it would go to her for whatever she needed or wanted. 

But since he's dodging the bullet for her and his two older girls from his first marriage, I'm quite happy to take every last penny Support Enforcement can get from him when they find him.