Sooo... Why is it so hard for some of you ladies to believe that...
Some women hate breast feeding?
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I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.
I dont care who breastfeeds and who doesnt. It just never concerned me enough about what others did with their baby.
I BF both of mine...because I wanted to. And it seemed easy for me.
My sister FF all of hers...because she wanted to. And I didnt care that she did...they were her kids, not mine.
OH MY GAWD! Because hello I loved it so everyone else should love it damn it! Just like I love cats...everyone else should love cats!
I believe that some women hate it, but it is in most cases best for the baby! As mothers sometimes we have to put our own feelings aside to do what is best for our child! I hate poop, but I still have to change my kids diapers, I hate waking up early in the morning, or multiple times a night, but I have to because I have to take care of my children!
My best friend refused to bf both of her children. She never even considered giving it a try. She was disgusted by the thought of it and it just made her very uncomfortable.
No way in hell did I look down on her. Her girls are bright, healthy and athletic, and she's a great mom. I mean, she absolutely LOVES motherhood. I've never seen anythung quite like it. Whether or not she bf made no difference to me in the way I viewed her at all. That woud be so petty and judgmental.
There is SO much more to being a good mother than breast feeding. I am well aware of the health benefits, and, yes, it's best for the baby, but there are plenty of formula fed children who are happy, smart and only get the occasional cold.
I hated breastfeeding .. still did it 4 times for almost 6 years collectively..
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!
- thetrollcat
on Nov. 14, 2012 at 12:57 AM