Idk what t do anymore. I was living with my grandma to help her with bills and her to help me with child care while i worked night shift. DDs father isnt in the picture at all. I have filed for child support but its an out of state case so its taking forever. But dd is 4 turning 5 in March. Well she was a very good girl and actually still is with everyone but me. She back talks me, screams at me, and just doesnt listen to the simplest things i say. She fights me on EVERYTHING. I had enough and moved in with my bf bc my grandma would undermind any punishment i put in place for my dd. I did try to talk to her and she said she sees the way she treats me but she is a completly different kid for her. Now i have taken all her toys away for not cleaning them up. She cant watch tv and go anywhere but to school or with me and my bf like to the store not to anyones house. When is good she earns things back. IDK what to do i need ideas badly. Please help me ladies.