UPDATE** Im so mad at DH, I may actually slap him when he gets home!
So money is tight with us, but dh desperatly wanted to buy a gun to go shooting with. He had his eye on one for a realllly long time and when it went on sale we agreed that if he could save twice the amount the gun cost, he could buy it and be done for the year and that be his christmas present.
Now, he has spent an extra $200 ONTOP of the gun price leaving us barely able to pay rent this month ( EVERYTHING comes out this week so its frustrating)
We agreed when we got married that the money is OURS regardless of who is working for it, we also agreed to discuss any purchases before/directly after they were made. the $200 - he doesnt know that i know he spent it. He used the credit card ( which is for emergencies and gas - and i hardley ever check) and has been pretending that the packages are my christmas gifts arriving early!
im SO SO SO freaking mad. I feel betrayed and disappointed.
and if I dont physically attack him when he gets home, im probably going to beat him with my words... oh I pray i get in control of my anger before he gets home...
Im just coming off BC which screwed my emotions up and have my first period so please be honest, AM I OVERREACTING??
So I came up with a hundred ways to make him "pay for what he did" and just realised that he is my husband, not my child. Im going to tell him how what he did affected me and then he has to work to earn my trust. in the mean time, my money isnt going in the acount and Im keeping the credit card for expenses I have. I think thats fair?
oh how I wish i didnt agree to him getting that fking gun