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This woman WONT leave us be!!! ~ RANT ~

Ok so I live with SO in his parents apartment for the time being. His sister and his sisters wife and son also live with us. His sister is friends with a woman that lives downstairs... I cant stand this woman. She's pregnant with twins right now, and has three already that she NEVER stays home with. She's dirty... she never cleans her apartment, never cleans her kids, never FEEDS her kids. She's upstairs in this apartment instead of her own ALL the time. My little one is going on 4 months now and we're hitting the stage that he's working on his sleep schedule....  He was crying a few days ago because I sat him down while I went to fix him a bottle and this woman goes and picks him up then starts complaining on how heavy he is and saying that hes going to be put on a diet (hes 14.5 lbs right now and the doc says its great. he was only 3.bs 12oz at birth). I let it slide because SO said not to start anything with her... then the day before yesterday I was laying down with him on the couch watching our tv shows and cuddling and she comes in and just takes him.... WTF???? I just wanted to punch her but she's pregnant.... again because I didnt want to get kicked out of here I let it slide. I told SO about it that night and he seemed a little pisst off (finally) but didnt say much. THEN last night he was especially fussy and wanted a bottle. I sat with him and tried to calm him down while SO went and fixed him up a bottle. SHE comes in while SO is getting bottle and says "Oh let me see him" I say "no, I've got it he's just hungry, a bottle is coming". SHE goes to grab him away from me... Oh I saw RED. I turned to her and said "EXCUSE you? I said I f***in got this...." SO comes in the room and had to argue with her to make her GO AWAY he could see my face was turning BEET red (only does that when I'm about to kick ass). I'm so tired of her doing this crap and not to mention all the "advice" she likes to give. Like she knows how to take care of anything? SHe doesnt even take care of her own kids. Shes a whore... she screws and has kids that she lives off the child support after making their father have no rights and thinks its great but then tries to give ME advice on MY relationship? I want to kick this b***h down the stairs, seriously. I usually have some patience but my patience is RUNNING Out with this c**t.  I cant wait until she is no longer pregnant  then shes free game to beat the crap out of. If she doesnt stop with the telling me how to do EVERYTHING with MY son its going to be earlier. I'm at the pont that i dont CARE if i get kicked out. She needs to stay home with her OWN kids!!!!!!!

and since no one can concentrate on anything other than me calling names and not what my actual issue is I went and edited it for everyones f***in enjoyment. oh and WHY is this an issue to me? YOU sit and let some woman take your kid from your arms, act like they live in the place and constantly tell you what your doing is WRONG. And believe me, i WANT to get my own place. We dont have the funds right now, we're lucky his parents are letting us stay with them (another reason I havent torn this idiot a new one, out of respect for his parents).

by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 8:38 AM
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sunshinebebe26
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:21 AM

NO bitch your the idiot coming on here and attacking children when YOUR CHILD is in the exact same boat , and I AM SURE that is why she has her kids for a pay check.  You don't know that is why she has her kids now go ahead and tell me she told you that she only had kids for the money. Now STFU and go get a job and pay your own damn bills stop living off your relatives.

Quoting carolinapride82:

I would rather be POOR and on the streets than USE a child to make a living. If you dont see a problem with this... having children only for the child support... using a child for a parealitivesycheck... then your just as much of an idiot. 

Quoting sunshinebebe26:

I just don't think you should be up on your high horse and looking down your nose at other moms when you can't even afford to pay for your own place , atleast she can pay her own bills!!

Quoting carolinapride82:

See MYSELF in her? no, sorry. I dont make children to make a paycheck. The reason WHY I dont work and im with SO's parents is because my child was premature. We made the decision to move in here so we can afford me staying home with the baby... to CARE for him. Being a stay at home mom is a job also, just not one that you get paid for with money. My payment is my child's wellbeing. Uneducated? I went to school through high school. Unless you mean uneducated because of no higher education then you would be correct. Anger management issues? if you read the title of my post it says RANT very clearly. In other words, I am venting my anger instead of using it in a different way that could be a lot worse.  And seriously STILL with the bastard bs? I edited the post.... since hardly anyone can comment on anything in the post BUT the fact I called a child a name. I don't feel like arguing on a word that I had the definition wrong for. I changed it. 

Quoting JC2223:

 I can understand your frustration, but you should seriously look at yourself and your own life before attacking others for theirs. You don't sound much better than she does. Your child, by definition, is a bastard. You don't work and live in someone elses home with your child that you had out of wedlock. You also sound very uneducated and have anger management issues. I suggest you work on bettering yourself before you go attacking other people for the same life choices you've made. Maybe that's why she angers you so much...maybe you see yourself in her because based on the little you wrote...we can see a lot of similarities!

 

 

 


carolinapride82
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:22 AM

Unfortunetly thats one of the problems. No matter where I go in the apartment she follows. If my kid makes the slightest sound shes there in a flash like its the end of the world, even though I KNOW why he's crying and I'm doing what he needs. She's even woken him up when I was in the bathroom before! I'm aware its not my home, thats why I'm ranting on here and not in her face.... I've tried talking to her nice, its like talking to a brick wall.... I wish we could get our own place but that would mean me getting a paid for job again, which means I cant stay home with my baby for his first year which was the plan and its why we're here instead of in our own place. Nosey is being nice lol... I'm the type of person that I like to be left alone, especially when it comes to unwanted advice about MY child. If i want/need to know, I'll ask, you know?

Quoting scarletmeshell:

Ok bastards aside.....This is not y our home so you have no say in who comes and goes. She just sounds nosey. If she comes in and you can't handle it then go to your room and avoid her.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:23 AM

Jesus mary mother of god this is so long!!! 

militarywife09
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:23 AM
Why? A bastard is a child born out of wedlock. My oldest dd is a bastard. People like YOU make it offensive.


Quoting Anonymous:

You sound just as disgusting as she does...just fyi. Calling kids bastards? Very classy.


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militarywife09
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:23 AM
I'd be pissed too.
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carolinapride82
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:24 AM

you just made me LOL

Quoting sunshinebebe26:

NO bitch your the idiot coming on here and attacking children when YOUR CHILD is in the exact same boat , and I AM SURE that is why she has her kids for a pay check.  You don't know that is why she has her kids now go ahead and tell me she told you that she only had kids for the money. Now STFU and go get a job and pay your own damn bills stop living off your relatives.

Quoting carolinapride82:

I would rather be POOR and on the streets than USE a child to make a living. If you dont see a problem with this... having children only for the child support... using a child for a parealitivesycheck... then your just as much of an idiot. 

Quoting sunshinebebe26:

I just don't think you should be up on your high horse and looking down your nose at other moms when you can't even afford to pay for your own place , atleast she can pay her own bills!!

Quoting carolinapride82:

See MYSELF in her? no, sorry. I dont make children to make a paycheck. The reason WHY I dont work and im with SO's parents is because my child was premature. We made the decision to move in here so we can afford me staying home with the baby... to CARE for him. Being a stay at home mom is a job also, just not one that you get paid for with money. My payment is my child's wellbeing. Uneducated? I went to school through high school. Unless you mean uneducated because of no higher education then you would be correct. Anger management issues? if you read the title of my post it says RANT very clearly. In other words, I am venting my anger instead of using it in a different way that could be a lot worse.  And seriously STILL with the bastard bs? I edited the post.... since hardly anyone can comment on anything in the post BUT the fact I called a child a name. I don't feel like arguing on a word that I had the definition wrong for. I changed it. 

Quoting JC2223:

 I can understand your frustration, but you should seriously look at yourself and your own life before attacking others for theirs. You don't sound much better than she does. Your child, by definition, is a bastard. You don't work and live in someone elses home with your child that you had out of wedlock. You also sound very uneducated and have anger management issues. I suggest you work on bettering yourself before you go attacking other people for the same life choices you've made. Maybe that's why she angers you so much...maybe you see yourself in her because based on the little you wrote...we can see a lot of similarities!






HousewifeNina
by Platinum Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:24 AM
How big is.that apartment?
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Mrs.wilcox01
by Gold Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:26 AM
I was thinking the same.they can't help they were brought into a life they have


Quoting Anonymous:

You sound just as disgusting as she does...just fyi. Calling kids bastards? Very classy.


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carolinapride82
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:27 AM

three bedroom. baby is in our room with us.

Quoting HousewifeNina:

How big is.that apartment?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:28 AM

Wow, another classy mom. So you mean to tell me that referring to your daughter as a bastard in an angry context is ok to? It's the way it's used that's offensive, not ME that's making it that way.

Quoting militarywife09:

Why? A bastard is a child born out of wedlock. My oldest dd is a bastard. People like YOU make it offensive.


Quoting Anonymous:

You sound just as disgusting as she does...just fyi. Calling kids bastards? Very classy.



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