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This woman WONT leave us be!!! ~ RANT ~

Ok so I live with SO in his parents apartment for the time being. His sister and his sisters wife and son also live with us. His sister is friends with a woman that lives downstairs... I cant stand this woman. She's pregnant with twins right now, and has three already that she NEVER stays home with. She's dirty... she never cleans her apartment, never cleans her kids, never FEEDS her kids. She's upstairs in this apartment instead of her own ALL the time. My little one is going on 4 months now and we're hitting the stage that he's working on his sleep schedule....  He was crying a few days ago because I sat him down while I went to fix him a bottle and this woman goes and picks him up then starts complaining on how heavy he is and saying that hes going to be put on a diet (hes 14.5 lbs right now and the doc says its great. he was only 3.bs 12oz at birth). I let it slide because SO said not to start anything with her... then the day before yesterday I was laying down with him on the couch watching our tv shows and cuddling and she comes in and just takes him.... WTF???? I just wanted to punch her but she's pregnant.... again because I didnt want to get kicked out of here I let it slide. I told SO about it that night and he seemed a little pisst off (finally) but didnt say much. THEN last night he was especially fussy and wanted a bottle. I sat with him and tried to calm him down while SO went and fixed him up a bottle. SHE comes in while SO is getting bottle and says "Oh let me see him" I say "no, I've got it he's just hungry, a bottle is coming". SHE goes to grab him away from me... Oh I saw RED. I turned to her and said "EXCUSE you? I said I f***in got this...." SO comes in the room and had to argue with her to make her GO AWAY he could see my face was turning BEET red (only does that when I'm about to kick ass). I'm so tired of her doing this crap and not to mention all the "advice" she likes to give. Like she knows how to take care of anything? SHe doesnt even take care of her own kids. Shes a whore... she screws and has kids that she lives off the child support after making their father have no rights and thinks its great but then tries to give ME advice on MY relationship? I want to kick this b***h down the stairs, seriously. I usually have some patience but my patience is RUNNING Out with this c**t.  I cant wait until she is no longer pregnant  then shes free game to beat the crap out of. If she doesnt stop with the telling me how to do EVERYTHING with MY son its going to be earlier. I'm at the pont that i dont CARE if i get kicked out. She needs to stay home with her OWN kids!!!!!!!

and since no one can concentrate on anything other than me calling names and not what my actual issue is I went and edited it for everyones f***in enjoyment. oh and WHY is this an issue to me? YOU sit and let some woman take your kid from your arms, act like they live in the place and constantly tell you what your doing is WRONG. And believe me, i WANT to get my own place. We dont have the funds right now, we're lucky his parents are letting us stay with them (another reason I havent torn this idiot a new one, out of respect for his parents).

by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 8:38 AM
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opal10161973
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:30 AM
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I would just tell everyone in the home and her that if she so much as lays a finger on YOUR child again, you will call the police and have her removed.  You have every right to protect your baby, but getting physical with her only makes YOU look bad. 

lifehappy
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:31 AM

I wouldn't have an issue, because the FIRST time someone intrudes upon my personal life/space/issues/whatever, I let them know (without having to "kick ass" or call them c*nt, bitch, etc.) that I won't tolerate it...ever. There are ways to handle situations that aren't comfortable with assertiveness.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:31 AM
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A bastard is any child born out of wedlock. Your children fit that description of illegitimacy as well.

Quoting carolinapride82:

having a child that has no father on purpose and not getting married is two different things completely. My SO is there with me and his son, and is involved. SHE goes out and purposely finds guys to get pregnant, then takes the children away from the man and lives off the child support.... a bastard is someone without a father. My child has a father and knows who he is. BIG difference.


Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Wow. Stopped reading at the "she has kids that are bastards". Yet I noticed you said SO and not DH. so what does that make your kid, born out of wedlock?

Hypocrite.


militarywife09
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:31 AM
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Honey, you don't even know me. Again. Bastard is a term for a child born out of wedlock. And yes YOU make it that way. Oh and I don't refer to my children in anyway when I'm angry. Just their names. Unlike YOU obviously.


Quoting Anonymous:

Wow, another classy mom. So you mean to tell me that referring to your daughter as a bastard in an angry context is ok to? It's the way it's used that's offensive, not ME that's making it that way.


Quoting militarywife09:

Why? A bastard is a child born out of wedlock. My oldest dd is a bastard. People like YOU make it offensive.





Quoting Anonymous:

You sound just as disgusting as she does...just fyi. Calling kids bastards? Very classy.





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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:32 AM

First of all, you need to tell her to leave your apartment and never come back.  Second, don't let your SO tell you what to do in regards to this woman, he is not your father or your husband.  Third, find your own place to live.  Yeah, I know you said you "don't have the funds" but you need to find the funds and get out on your own.   

angevil53
by Platinum Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:32 AM
Um you sound gross. Leave the room when she comes in. Problem solved.
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carolinapride82
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:33 AM

you can call the police even if shes not harmful to my baby? i didnt know that... the way SO made it sound before, I cant do a thing about it other than argue with her or we'd have to leave here. I'd only get phisical with her if it were the very last option. I just really do want to kick the idiots ass.... thats how i feel, its a rant remember lol

Quoting opal10161973:

I would just tell everyone in the home and her that if she so much as lays a finger on YOUR child again, you will call the police and have her removed.  You have every right to protect your baby, but getting physical with her only makes YOU look bad. 


lullabylily
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:33 AM
Dont you ever lock your apartment door? I would not let anyone come into my place without having them knocking the door first and I need to see through the peephole before letting anyone in.
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minecraftzombie
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:35 AM
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 You know... her face isn't pregnant :)

carolinapride82
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:36 AM

Oh I'll be leaving here after baby turns a year... thats why we dont have the funds. Im a SAHM because my baby was premature, we made the decision that I should stay home for the first year of his life. I'm enjoying it except for the part where I'm being told by someone not even related how to do everything for my baby. This isnt my first child, and I never asked for her advice lol. 

Quoting Anonymous:

First of all, you need to tell her to leave your apartment and never come back.  Second, don't let your SO tell you what to do in regards to this woman, he is not your father or your husband.  Third, find your own place to live.  Yeah, I know you said you "don't have the funds" but you need to find the funds and get out on your own.   


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