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OK, Fine, I admit it. Your husband does NOT look at porn...but he wants to:)

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post



I have read the somewhat "angry" replies, and can't help but think to myself.."Who are they trying to convince? Me? or themselves?

Honestly, why the anger? If you're SO sure that YOUR precious lovebug doesn't ever wanna look at another pair of tits, then why are you getting so defensive? Just wondering. This is the internet. I'm just sitting at here laughing at all of you anyway:)

s from the women on here and then tell me no one else cares. Ta-DA!

LMAO...wow...I am in absolute shock, as I sit and enjoy my coffee. This bullshit got over 500 responses. Thanks ladies, for inflating my self esteem so. I never said that ALL men in the WHOLE world watch porn. I'm now positive that not all men look at porn, because from what I've read, some of you never give your S/O enough room to breathe, much less jerk off. However, not being able to look at porn does not translate to "he doesn't want to look at porn"

Oh yea..I LOVED the comments about me not being able to please my man, and the one's asking why I even care enough to write this.

Simple...I LOVE porn, DH does to. We have an open and honest relationship (not THAT kind of open;) and we have a great sex-life. I don't treat him like a child and follow his every move, nor do i say ignorant things like"porn is disgusting,and porn is only for guys who don't wanna fuck their wife". That is so far from true. I promise you, if you are a sexual being, which we all are, ther is porn out there that will turn you on. It's not all about the huge fake boobs, and the throbbing rock hard 9 inch cocks. Some of it is very erotic, without being cheesy. I personally enjoy BDSM sites and Lesbian porn...yes yes yes...I know I'm going to hell...newsflash: Hell is only scary when you actually believe in it...kinda like the Boogeyman.

And as far as "WHy do you post this OP, we all wanna know why you care so much!!!"....all I can say is look at the number of responses and then tell me that no one cares.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 15, 2012 at 2:09 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 97 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:01 PM
How interesting. I have never understood the thrill of trolling. The work to produce a lasting Trollope just never seemed rewarding enough. Controversial and superficial insults also seem like low hanging fruit.

Well crafted trolls like texcastrophe I totally get. Forum trolling in the cafemom sense though. Bleh.


Quoting Anonymous:



Quoting Anonymous:

Wait...you care, because of then number of responses?

yes? did I not make that clear? Should I re-type it so that no one else is confused? LMAO...this is the cheapest and funniest thing to do on the internet thus far...I used to look at porn, but the resposes i am reading are much funnier than any vagina I've ever seen.


siennasmamma
by Gold Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:02 PM
Oooooh shit!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 63 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:03 PM

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:04 PM

you are a riot

We all must believe the same as you or else we're selfish, immature,  insecure.

Why can't people accept the fact that everyone has differences in their marriages & how they work. If porn works for YOUR marriage fine. That's YOUR life, your relationship & I really don't care. I wouldn't look down on you for that choice. *shrugs* But i find it funny how you are looking down on people who's marriages are different & don't have porn or want porn within it. *shakes head*

1lv2stks3nlz4ev
by Silver Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:14 PM

 My DF and I actually had a long conversation about this subject last night. So I guess thanks for opening that line of communication. Having said that, he has admitted to viewing it in the past as a teenager. HOWEVER, he said it was also before he had actually had sex. He said he has no intrest in it now and even when he was single he didn't. I am not a helicopter wife. I don't watch his every move but I do know that when he is not with me he is at work or working with his brother. He laughed yesterday and said "Even if I wanted to... I don't have time!" So yeah... he's not. The other issue that arrises from this and is part of the reason he doesn't is the fact that he knows my ex husband used to force me to watch it with him and recreate it. Not in a sexy way.... in a hostage taking, abusive, do it or I am going to beat you black and blue kind of way. He knows I have issues with it. He is sensitive to those issues. So add it all together... lack of want to view it, lack of time and sensitive to my issues means that he simply doesn't do it and it is a personal choice.

All the power to anyone else. Just doesn't happen in my relationship.

Mommy2BeAmy
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:17 PM

So you're comfortable with your dh pleasuring himself to another woman and cumming watching her being fucked?

And hes comfortable with his wife ( you) pleasuring yourself to other men looking at other dicks but his?

This is why our country is looked at with pity.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 123 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:22 PM


Quoting B1Bomber:

There are men whose religious values mean that they believe ALL sexual expression is reserved solely for the confines of marriage, and pornography doesn't fit that definition.

I dated two men like that.  One told me he gave it up because of his beliefs and he felt he was getting addicted, and the other never watched it.  Frankly Idc if they do or not so long as they don't expect me to look like the women in the movies or act like them.  I also don't understand: it's so hard to believe not all men watch porn?  I don't think porn is any fun if you're alone anyway.  It's like watching all the food on the cooking channel...you can't eat any of it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:31 PM


Quoting Mommy2BeAmy:

So you're comfortable with your dh pleasuring himself to another woman and cumming watching her being fucked?

And hes comfortable with his wife ( you) pleasuring yourself to other men looking at other dicks but his?

This is why our country is looked at with pity.

Of course I'm comfortable with it! I know he loves me. It's actually pretty fun. And, yes, he is comfortable with it to, but if you read my post, I don't really rub one out looking at other cocks. I prefer pussy:)

I'm pretty sure that I and others like me are not the reason this country is looked at one way or the other. If so, why is everybody trying so hard to get here??

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:35 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

How interesting. I have never understood the thrill of trolling. The work to produce a lasting Trollope just never seemed rewarding enough. Controversial and superficial insults also seem like low hanging fruit.

Well crafted trolls like texcastrophe I totally get. Forum trolling in the cafemom sense though. Bleh.


Quoting Anonymous:



Quoting Anonymous:

Wait...you care, because of then number of responses?

yes? did I not make that clear? Should I re-type it so that no one else is confused? LMAO...this is the cheapest and funniest thing to do on the internet thus far...I used to look at porn, but the resposes i am reading are much funnier than any vagina I've ever seen.


Well, if the definition of "trolling" is saying things that "some" other women might not want to hear, or admit to, then I am GUILTY! Slap those handcuffs on me and teach me a lesson.

either way, you read my post, AND resonded to it, so I accomplished what I set out to do:)

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:39 PM

I was beginning to wonder where all the women were that DON'T have a stick up their ass about boobies:)

I totally agree with what you said. Some men are too scared to look at porn, because they know that their women can't handle it....and that's ok. But it doesn't mean that they don't want to, and don't miss it.

I love that I am repeatedly called a troll for posting this. If it's a troll post, and it's not worth their time, then why do I have so many replies??

You sound very cool yourself:)

Quoting beehive7:

Your too cool. We have quite a bit in common! I like watching porn too! With AND WITHOUT MY HUBBY! It's gives me good ideas on sexual positions and stuff. My hubby and I have A great SEX LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP TOO! With the occasional ups and downs but great none the less. Men no matter how decent their wives claim them to be,will ALWAYS have the need to look at or desire to look at something sexual,whether it's the lingerie in a window that gives them a chance to at least fantasize or an attractive woman passing by with her tits hanging out. It's all boils down to their primitive upbringing from thousands of years ago, that nobody can suppress. Remember,it's ok to be a Lil naughty ladies! wink


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