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is this cheating?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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 So please read this scenario and see if you take his side or mine.

I have an ex, I'll just use his name (A.B) since no one will know it is him. AB broke up with me 3 years ago in college, over winter vacation, mainly so he could avoid meeting my family and going with me for break.

After break, he finds out I slept with 1 of my ex's. He yelled at me and cried and said that I cheated on him, if I loved him I would have never cheated on him and slept with my ex. Told me to go stand on a streetcorner where a whore belonged, awful shit like that. I said "You broke up with me, I did not cheat" He has maintained ever since that I cheated on him and that it was unforgivable. That I cheated because he still loved me and was going to take me back when college started again. (Edit: i guess he assumed i knew he wanted me back after break cuz I still am, the only gf he has ever had to this day)

Do you think it is/is not (emotional or physical) cheating. Yes, no, which one (Emotional, physical, both) and why.

I am sorry it's just really been bothering me because I've been heartbroken ever since and jumped into a marriage while I was still rebounding...(Edit: My husband did leave me, when he got kicked out of the military and had a breakdown)I've gone over it 100 times, would I be happier if these events never happened and we were still together...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:27 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:29 PM
No it's not cheating
taylamill
by Tayla on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:31 PM
Nope you didn't cheat.
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robinclements86
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:31 PM
Nope not cheating
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suebee3
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:31 PM

No it is not cheating.  DOn't let AB make you feel bad for his mistake

mamaxkitty
by Gold Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:32 PM

he's crazy! lol you guys were broken up, so how is that cheating? O_o


areyouatroll
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:33 PM
Nope not at all.
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little.wise.owl
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:33 PM

no,and he sounds crazy...

xtwistedxlovex
by Platinum Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:33 PM

He broke up with you...how can you cheat when you aren't in a relationship to begin with?

katiehopson
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:33 PM

He's just a little bitch. He can't say jack, especially since he's the one that broke up with you.

nverheyn2011
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:34 PM

neither. if he called it quits just so he could avoid meeting the fam, then he's a tard. you don't need someone who says he loves you but then will break up with you (even temporarily) just to get out of some family time.

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