So please read this scenario and see if you take his side or mine.
I have an ex, I'll just use his name (A.B) since no one will know it is him. AB broke up with me 3 years ago in college, over winter vacation, mainly so he could avoid meeting my family and going with me for break.
After break, he finds out I slept with 1 of my ex's. He yelled at me and cried and said that I cheated on him, if I loved him I would have never cheated on him and slept with my ex. Told me to go stand on a streetcorner where a whore belonged, awful shit like that. I said "You broke up with me, I did not cheat" He has maintained ever since that I cheated on him and that it was unforgivable. That I cheated because he still loved me and was going to take me back when college started again. (Edit: i guess he assumed i knew he wanted me back after break cuz I still am, the only gf he has ever had to this day)
Do you think it is/is not (emotional or physical) cheating. Yes, no, which one (Emotional, physical, both) and why.
I am sorry it's just really been bothering me because I've been heartbroken ever since and jumped into a marriage while I was still rebounding...(Edit: My husband did leave me, when he got kicked out of the military and had a breakdown)I've gone over it 100 times, would I be happier if these events never happened and we were still together...