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Just a rant about FREAKING DH!! ughhh

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I'm going to bash DH's face in I swear. Every FREAKING time we get into a fight he runs to facebook and posts our shit on blast for the whole freaking world to see!! WHY??? Why do that? What's the point?? We got into a huge fight this morning, and he posted a status about it, and everybody and their mama's have be texting me asking what's wrong, and of course all of his little friends and "girl"friends have been like " aww I'm sorry message me if you wanna talk" Ugh. I have facebook, but it's to keep in touch with friends and family, not to blast personal shit all over the Internet (which I'm totally doing now, I know, but none of us know each other lol) No one needs to know what we fight about. All his family and friends that I haven't met yet, must think I'm such a psycho bitch, because of course, he only tells one side of the story and plays  the victim game. Then he talks about how much he can't wait for me to meet them? Yeah your joking, I'm definitely not meeting them now after all the shit you talk. I'm so damn sick of it! I told him tonight that I was tired of people texting me and asking about our life because you want to go pout about it on facebook, and that there is no reason for him to do this, and all he did was shrug and say " Eh" ....That made me extremely furious!! But I left it alone...This is a high school girls game, and I've been over these kind of games for almost 10 years.

And before you girls say it I know all this sounds childish. I think it is too, but I can't help that I get pissed of because he totally blasts everything, and doesn't care what people think of me. I look over a lot of shit he does, and I try not to complain to much, but damnit I just can't seem to look past this..Ugh....Rant over...This is a long shot, but please no bashing...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:34 AM
Replies (11-20):
KyrinM
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:46 AM
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I'd wait until you are both not so upset, then ask him to go read his FB posts.  Then gently ask him, so what do you think your family thinks about me when they read this?  What do you think my family would think of you if I posted the same kind of things about you?  Then point out that this relationship is between the two of you, not the two of you & all your friends & family.  I'd point out that posting it on FB is kinda like when the media was all over Kristen Stewart & her BF Rob Pattinson over their relationship.  It was really no one's business but theirs, but damn if everyone didn't have an opinion.  How the hell they managed to work anything out without letting the world's opinions affect them I'll never know.  Good luck, don't kill him.  I know he is being rather immature, but hopefully he will outgrow this.  Hugs!

racheypoo03
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:46 AM

you have his password?  When he does stuff like that, delete it and then put something nice about you :)

hello_kitty25
by Platinum Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:48 AM

 Your not putting it on blast, least your anon

wulfeyes05
by Ruby Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:49 AM

I'd be like you want me to be a psycho bitch fine then I'll be a psycho bitch, you want me to act fucking crazy here's a fucking book being slammed against your balls.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:55 AM

Oh I've been real tempted to show him a psycho bitch if that's what he wants. I'll give him something to freaking post about!! Ugh..But that would just be me stooping to his level of immaturity :( 

Quoting wulfeyes05:

I'd be like you want me to be a psycho bitch fine then I'll be a psycho bitch, you want me to act fucking crazy here's a fucking book being slammed against your balls.


wulfeyes05
by Ruby Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:59 AM

True, but oh the sweet vengence lol. Just ignore him, try having a long heart felt talk with him. Tell him in a calm voice how disrespectful it is and how you have no interest in meeting his family because he has made you out to be a bad and horrible person and that it is unfair for him to not tell the whole story and rest all the blame of an argument on you. It takes two to argue and he's making you the bad guy and that is selfish and very harmful to your relationship. Tell him you want it to stop immediately and if it doesn't then he obviously doesn't care how he makes you feel, how he makes you look to others, and that he is horrible for not caring enough to grow up and keep what goes on between the two of you private.

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh I've been real tempted to show him a psycho bitch if that's what he wants. I'll give him something to freaking post about!! Ugh..But that would just be me stooping to his level of immaturity :( 

Quoting wulfeyes05:

I'd be like you want me to be a psycho bitch fine then I'll be a psycho bitch, you want me to act fucking crazy here's a fucking book being slammed against your balls.



AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:01 AM

 I am ashamed to admit this, but I was doing this for awhile. He's (your husband) going to have to realize it himself , the damage he's inflicting on his marriage. That's what happened to me. I realized how damaging it was to post stuff like that on facebook. It really created a lot of problems between me and my DH's family. I had to learn the hard way.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:02 AM
My dh tried this once.all I had to do is post "get off facebook and open a real book" he knew what that meant,my problem was solved immediately lol
Kayla060812
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:02 AM
I stopped reading it after the "girl" friends. You need to.stop him in his tracks. Or be childish too and comment on his status what really happened
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:03 AM

Oh yes, what sweet vengence it would be!! I've tried ignoring it. I deleted him from my FB page, the only reason I know he posts stuff is because of everybody inboxing me and texting me. Annnd I've had the long heartfelt talk with him before after we have cooled down, and he admits its wrong and he won't do it again. But he ALWAYS does it again. I can't take it. And I refuse to speak up and post anything about it, because I'm friends with alot of his family and friends as well, but that wouldn't make me any better. So it's eating me alive knowing that I can't fend for myself or I would be like him, which I'm trying to aviod. 

Quoting wulfeyes05:

True, but oh the sweet vengence lol. Just ignore him, try having a long heart felt talk with him. Tell him in a calm voice how disrespectful it is and how you have no interest in meeting his family because he has made you out to be a bad and horrible person and that it is unfair for him to not tell the whole story and rest all the blame of an argument on you. It takes two to argue and he's making you the bad guy and that is selfish and very harmful to your relationship. Tell him you want it to stop immediately and if it doesn't then he obviously doesn't care how he makes you feel, how he makes you look to others, and that he is horrible for not caring enough to grow up and keep what goes on between the two of you private.

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh I've been real tempted to show him a psycho bitch if that's what he wants. I'll give him something to freaking post about!! Ugh..But that would just be me stooping to his level of immaturity :( 

Quoting wulfeyes05:

I'd be like you want me to be a psycho bitch fine then I'll be a psycho bitch, you want me to act fucking crazy here's a fucking book being slammed against your balls.




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