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If he's NOT the dad why would I care about your pregnancy?!!

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My cousin, who is like a brother to me, got his heart ripped out when he caught his wife cheating over a year ago. He has been trying to find her for divorce reasons but she keeps dodging the papers. Well this morning I get a friend request from her. I click on it to Reject it and find shes pregnant!

I text my cousin like wtf? And he said "yea, she's been asking all my cousin's who are moms for support, she probably just wants to ask you questions. She doesn't know you know what happened. But feel free to tell her where to shove it"

So I messaged her that I have no intrest in her pregnancy but especially not in her and not to contact me again. I then blocked her.

How messed up is that? Would you reach out to your Exs family?
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by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:08 AM
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CheesyKitty
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:36 PM
They are in Ohio


Quoting Anonymous:

What state are you in?  Depending on laws she may be dodging the divorce paperwork so she can say he is the Dad and get CS.


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Bambootrees
by Bronze Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:38 PM
Crazy
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prenatalRN
by Silver Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:40 PM

I would block her and move on

CheesyKitty
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:42 PM
I am.


Quoting prenatalRN:

I would block her and move on


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semamaearth
by Silver Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:44 PM

no way would I ever reach out to my ex's family if I was pregnant with someone else's child....whether I'd cheated or not. But esp if I'd cheated and left him and all. that's insane

AF2011
by Ruby Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:50 PM

If the baby is not his I wont. She sounds like she just is trying to create more drama and use that they're legally married against him. Stay away from that crazy 

bcauseimthemom
by Ruby Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:08 PM

I would have accepted the friend request and found out where she was to help my cousin serve the divorce papers.....

kissmiss213
by Platinum Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:14 PM

not after behaving like that.

hello_kitty25
by Platinum Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:16 PM

 goodness! i would never!

Grumpylilpixy
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 1:16 PM

Nope. I have a brother and I am not friends with his exs.

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