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im the other woman. ask away *updated*

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My mister is married with 3 kids. He is drawing up paperwork for a divorce, and they are currently not even residing in the same bed anymore.



Im his mistress, And i am not ashamed to be so.



Ask me any questions.



******//We had never slept together. Not even kissed, but I do believe our relationship is moving forward. We kind of got into kinky conversation last night and he's insistent on seeing me SOON! Its been 8 years since him and i last did anything. Im hoping With new practice I can still blow his mind like i used to.******
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 16, 2012 at 10:49 PM
Replies (61-70):
JLS2388
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:05 PM

How do you know he is not sleeping with her still? If you are so sure he is leaving her, why not just wait until he actually does so that you can start your relationship in an honest way? If he does leave her (big if) and y'all end up together (even bigger if) how are you going to answer his children when they ask why you were with him before their parents divorced (because if you think that won't come out sooner or later, you are crazy)?

mommy425906
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:06 PM

How long have you been together? How long has he been married? How old are his kids? What is your 'plan' for after the divorce?

unsuspected
by Gold Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:06 PM
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BS on this whole thing.  You're a sad woman regardless.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:07 PM
No dumbass he tracked me Down months ago to start contact again.

Lord. You ladies should learn to read.

Quoting emeraldangel2.0:

so she's his lawyer's secretary, she's met his kids, but he needs to track her down so they can fuck?

i call bullshit

Quoting KG34:

You've met his kids?

They must not know that you're screwing dad if they love you.


Quoting Anonymous:

Actually his kids love me. They say im funny and like that i spoil them.



Quoting Anonymous:

Have fun being with a man whose kids will HATE you.



Momma3830
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:07 PM
**You should love & respect yourself more than that. **
One question, when the fun & excitement of being with someone you're not supposed to & sneaking around goes away, do you honestly believe he will stay with you??
You're the "transition" woman, the "get over the hump of leaving the wife & kids" woman. Not the "I'm ready to settle down for" woman.
That's the truth of it. & I think you honestly know that. That's why you're anon && why you're so adamant of defending your actions, your praying your gut feeling is wrong!!!
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Maks1mommy
by Emerald Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:08 PM
Have you met his kids, does his wife know about you?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:08 PM

That doesn't mean shit, he can go all he wants that doesn't mean it will happen

Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe because I've been to the divorce lawyer with him. So i know he's getting divorced.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why do you believe all the stories he tells about his wife and their situation? Every story has 3 versions and you are only listening to his.  I don't think it's fair to be in this situation unless you have actually spoken to the wife and heard her story.  What do you have to lose by doing that, except of course that you are too scared to find out the truth?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:09 PM
8 weeks
4 years
Oldest is 6. He's not his. Youngest is 3

We plan to slowly build a solid relationship.

Quoting mommy425906:

How long have you been together? How long has he been married? How old are his kids? What is your 'plan' for after the divorce?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:09 PM

I love sex...but I love it with someone who is faithful, respectful and loving. Not with someone who just wants a different flavor for the night. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh. I fforgot. Only men can love sex. Forgave me

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

Actually he tracked me down answer contacted me. So therefore he wanted me. Can't help it that im irreplaceable.



Quoting Anonymous:

Why would you want to sleep with a man that has 3 kids and a wife? Not enough single men out there?

Even if he "tracked you down" why would you degrade yourself and be someone's booty call rather than be someone's one and only? Apparently you do not have any self respect.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:10 PM

Don't they all "say" they are going to get divorced and aren't even sleeping in the same bed anymore?

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