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Do enjoy sex with your parter?

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I'm trying to establish a correlation. Please answer honestly and use anon if you must.

1. Do you have open conversations about sex, fantasies, and positions?
2. Do you enjoy sex with your partner. Does he/she satisfy your sexual needs?
3. How often do you have sex (ie. Week, month, year)? Are you satisfied with this? Is your partner satisfied? Why this frequency?
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by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 7:38 AM
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by Ruby Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:21 AM
I couldn't be in a relationship where something so important wasn't openly discussed. We did not have sex before we got married, but we had many in-depth conversations about it. We continue to have discussions so that we know the needs of each other are met.
I love having sex with my hubby. He is my best friend. It's not always forget your name, scream and wake the neighbors sex, but it's definitely a favorite pastime.
The frequency has varied. We used to have it almost everyday. That was a bit too much, so we backed off. During my second pregnancy, I wanted it like ten times a day, even after the kid was born. This pregnancy, i have had no sex drive. Poor dh. He's lucky if he gets it once a week. But I do other things for him to satisfy him. Gotta take care of my man. He's been really patient. We had sex today, and it was delicious.
Just had to put that in there.
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by Emerald Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:22 AM

 Yes very open. There are no boundaries with us and we have an established and great safe word

Yes just wish it was more often

One day a week but multiple times in the 24 hour period


by Anonymous 8 on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:26 AM

1.  Yep yep!!!!!

2. 99.9% of the time

3. 2-3 times a day......

by Butters on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:33 AM
Why is that?

Quoting Anonymous:

1. Not anymore

2. No & no

3. I try to avoid sex or anything remotly sexual at all costs
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by Ruby Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:34 AM
1) Always open to talk about sex, that way there wont be any embarrassement later on to hold us back from any discussions. From the beginning, weve been like this.
2) yes we enjoy and very very satisfied. He wont cum or give up until i climax first and this is "practically" every time. The others are quickies or me surprising him on a whim.
3) right now its 3-4 days a wk. We dont live together but we try our best to catch up with each other as much as we can. If we lived together, he would be the every day kind of man, he has to dip it in and so am i. I need it as much as well. We are very compatible in this dept, we are willing to make each other happy and do as much as possible. We have the same pleasures and needs and we dont take away what the other may like. Like porn.
We are definitely balanced and i think thats really important.
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by MotherDucker on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:36 AM


No, hes deployed. 

Assuming he was here (my SO, not my sexual partner(s)) most of the time yes he does, but I generally do not like sex to begin with, it does not physically feel good. I have to be VERY intoxicated to derive pleasure from it.

Four to ten times a day. 

Because I'm a horny bitch.

by Ruby Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:38 AM

1.  sometimes

2.  hell  yes

3.  frequency depends on if the stars align and our children go to sleep at a decent hour and we're not too tired.  the kids went to a birthday party last night that the inlaws took them to, and the first thing we did was get naked.  neither of us are thrilled about how often, but we are not really dissatisfied.

by Butters on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:56 AM
Do you think if you were more open about sex, you would "get there" more often. Do you think in you "got there" more often, you would have sex more?

Quoting Anonymous:

1. no

2. i always enjoy sex with my husband. i do not always "get there" but i enjoy the intimacy and whether i get there or not is not as important as the closeness.

3. it fluctuates. on average maybe 6-10 times a month. we could go a week without anything but the next week we could go four days in a row. I am satisfied. He is satisfied. When we want to then we go for it. We do not have a set schedule or anything. If the other is not feeling up to it then we respect that.


Lately I have been EXHAUSTED because my boys have not adjusted to the time change and have been getting up an hour earlier so my day starts at 6am and I do not go to sleep until my husband is home from work at midnight because that is our only time for just us. My 6 month old is ebf so he gets up every 2-3 hours. My husband is totally understanding about me not feeling up to it.

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by Butters on Nov. 17, 2012 at 8:59 AM
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by Anonymous 9 on Nov. 17, 2012 at 9:00 AM

I have not had sex in almost 4 months! I live with my sons dad, he has zero sex drive, and we really don't get along so I don't care. I can take care of my own sexual needs more effectively than he can anyway.

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