Moms, Why dont (some) of you have custody of your kids? ETA

[Anonymous]

How could you give them up so easily?

ETA: I'm being asked why this is directed toward women. Well lets see, men aren't allowed on this website and women are the ones that carry their babies in their wombs and give birth. Women will always have a deeper connection than a Father no matter what. Its the truth. 

[Anonymous]

It's not easy. Who told you it was easy?

[alexsmomaubrys2]

Hopefully they did it because it was in the best interest of their children.

[funlovinlady]

Hmm. I have custody of my kids. 

[brettsmomma]

Sometimes a mother is not the best thing for a child. It must be an awful hard decision to make and insulting her isn't going to change that fact. 

[Pnukey]

I do have my kids.  I'm sure it wasn't easy for those who don't have their kids.

[Anonymous]

Hmmmm. Very judgemental, who said it was easy?? My abusive ex TOOK my kid years ago. Cops wouldn't do squat because they don't "get involved", tried cps, I'll add that i was very young, I was just a young teenager. I was told I would Have to get a lawyer. No lawyer $$$. He has had him for yrs. I have not seen him. I have not spoke to him. I have NO CLUE where they live to even serve anything if I wanted to. I am now in a different state with my Dh and our Dd. Easy? Definitely not. 

[thefiregoddess]

Who ever said she was given up?
In my case she was literally kidnapped.

Its not easy. At all.

[beautiful.GIRL1]

I dont think this should be directed at just moms. Fathers give up there kids all the time.

[Anonymous]

I wasnt given a choice. I havent given,up custody or signed my rights away and never will.

Im saving up money to go back to court

[Anonymous]

BM will not have custody of skids in the next month, because she is a shitty parent who refuses to do anything to support her children and tried to hide them from DH...its been a long time comming but DH and his children will finally be reunited :)