I don't want to hear a WORD about not getting to see your granddaughter!
She came down this weekend for Thanksgiving. She is leaving tomorrow and going to her sisters house five hours away instead of spending the holiday with her only son and only grand child. She has seven days off and is only spending two of them with them.
If she ever says anything else to me about "taking" dd from her I will go off (I have always let her take dd whenever she wanted her).