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please please tell me what you think.

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My bf says we don't have a normal relationship. Says we don't see each other enough. I have my DD, go to school, work full time. I have a car and he doesn't. He says that I should move out as soon as I can from my parents house. But im stable and rely on parents for baby sitting when I'm working or going to school. And when we hang out i need to go to his place or i need to pick him up from his friends place. I bought a brand new car and he got upset telling me i should have gotten a used car. Even though what i had before was used and it was ready to break down. He doesnt go to school. I'm 21 and he's 25. And then he says that its because of my schedule that he feels that we don't have a normal relationship.
Need advise what do you think?
Do you guys think it matters how often you see your bf? In order for it to be normal?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 17, 2012 at 10:30 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:00 PM
Wow he wants you to carry him. dont move out of your parents house! Your fine where youre at its him that needs to get it together none of it is your fault your awesome. Working at the sub place in the mills ?? Really?! Im from az and thats not a glamorous job on the ave lol you can do much better hunny
AmyD43
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:12 PM
Exactly! Why is he 25 with no car, no job ect?? He needs to grow up


Quoting lucky2Beeme:

What does he do. ? Why doesn't he have a car?

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AmyD43
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:13 PM
Tell him things change you have a daughter now. She's your priority not staying out all night. If he can't deal with it then get rid of him.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm with him cause he moved here from a different state. And he used to meet me half way but now he seems to not want to. He thinks i should have no problem seeing and thinks we don't have a normal relationship cause im not able to stay out all night with him.




Quoting Anonymous:

Why are you with him? 



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Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:14 PM
With all of that mess, I think you should get rid of him.
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kaddiefrass
by Bronze Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:15 PM
I think you are doing what you need to do and not only your future but your daughters future depend on what you have going on right now. He needs to realize that.
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Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:17 PM
That doesn't answer why you are with him. People move into my state all the time, but I don't date the.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm with him cause he moved here from a different state. And he used to meet me half way but now he seems to not want to. He thinks i should have no problem seeing and thinks we don't have a normal relationship cause im not able to stay out all night with him.




Quoting Anonymous:

Why are you with him? 


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JZB
by Gold Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:19 PM
Girl don't make anymore sacrifices for him until he has something worth sacrifing for
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kissmiss213
by Platinum Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:20 PM

i think he is insecure, and he is just being a little bitch.

dark_xiii_angel
by Bronze Member on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:21 PM
Exactly!

Quoting CCMami:

Until he puts a ring on your finger he makes no decisions about your life. You move out when you're ready and not with him. A good man and really a man in general doesn't talk like that. Perhaps he should find a hobby.
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babyboy117
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 11:23 PM
He's sounds controlling. I think you should leave him.
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