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The "N" word

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My husband calls black people that, it seriously bugs and offends me. I used to date blacks guys and so it really drive me crazy when he says it, not only that it's just so very offensive. I've told him numerous of times how awful he looks and sounds when he says this but he just won't stop. It's a constant thing and I'm kinda at my wits end here...
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:49 AM
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slashteddy
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:01 AM

Pretty much. Though there's still an assload of people out there who insist they're not racist because their "best friend" is Black or their cousin married a person of color, etc.

Quoting Anonymous:

Then they are not friends and is otherwise void of an example.


Quoting kblossom20:

Yes, a racist would have black friends. I've seen it first hand. My old best friend married a racist, and he hung out with black people whilst calling them "niggers" and other derogatory names behind their backs.


Quoting Anonymous:

A racist wouldn't have black friends though...





Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah. No. Sorry.

Considering OP admits that it isn't just to his Black friends, it's to ALL Black people, then social acceptance, context, and intent doesn't matter here. He refers to ALL Black people with this word. He is racist.

Quoting Anonymous:

Your bio is there for what reason? Oh yeah, to be READ. Just because someone calls a black person n*gger does not make them racist. It is socially acceptable within the black community to call your friends that, even if one friend is of a different race. As long as it doesn't offend the people he's saying it to, then there's no problem. The problem is if he's disrespecting his wife and child(ren) by saying it in front of them, but it does not make him racist. Like I said, you are naive and judgmental.








Quoting kblossom20:

Lmao! You read my bio? You have too much time on your hands. How pathetic. Naive & judgmental because RACISM pisses me off and I said something about it? Alright then. Whatever you say, ya creepy annon.




Quoting Anonymous:

Lol, your profile is right. You are truly 22 years YOUNG. You're very naive and judgmental. You joined the perfect group for you.











Quoting kblossom20:

STFU unless you wanna come off anonymous. LOL. Call me a bitch, I just say it like it is. I may not be a mother YET but it's only COMMON SENSE. 





Quoting Anonymous:

Damn, you're a bitch. And not one to judge someone's parenting as you're not even a mom yet. Smh














Quoting kblossom20:

Your husband sounds like an ignorant piece of shit. You're equally as much as a lowlife for being married to such a PIG. Honestly, I hope you don't raise kids around that filth. If you do, you should have them taken away. 





















Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:02 AM
How do you know? Maybe both forms of the word offend her...


Quoting kblossom20:

Obviously we're not from the same parts.... Where I live, the word isn't acceptable. Period. I think it's pretty obvious that the "N" word refers to none other than the obvious "n*gger". If her husband was going around saying "Nigga" I don't think she would have created this post in the first place. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I am hardly old, just have more of an open mind then you do. Where did she say n*ggER? She said he calls them the "n" word. So how do you know what context she's using it in?

Please... A majority of our friends are black and Hispanic. Our black friends are not at all offended by it. I grew up in a predominantly black high school and heard it all the time by many people of different races. They were never offended either. (Though I don't use the term myself.)





Quoting kblossom20:

LOL.

Alright Anon, you MUST be an old crotch because you're obviously out of touch, and misinformed. Having grown up with black friends, it is MOST DEFINITELY an insult to them. Yes, they do say "Nigga" but that is different than being called a "Nigger". The word Nigger is derogatory. Plain and simple. 



Quoting Anonymous:

Your bio is there for what reason? Oh yeah, to be READ. Just because someone calls a black person n*gger does not make them racist. It is socially acceptable within the black community to call your friends that, even if one friend is of a different race. As long as it doesn't offend the people he's saying it to, then there's no problem. The problem is if he's disrespecting his wife and child(ren) by saying it in front of them, but it does not make him racist. Like I said, you are naive and judgmental.








Quoting kblossom20:

Lmao! You read my bio? You have too much time on your hands. How pathetic. Naive & judgmental because RACISM pisses me off and I said something about it? Alright then. Whatever you say, ya creepy annon.




Quoting Anonymous:

Lol, your profile is right. You are truly 22 years YOUNG. You're very naive and judgmental. You joined the perfect group for you.











Quoting kblossom20:

STFU unless you wanna come off anonymous. LOL. Call me a bitch, I just say it like it is. I may not be a mother YET but it's only COMMON SENSE. 





Quoting Anonymous:

Damn, you're a bitch. And not one to judge someone's parenting as you're not even a mom yet. Smh














Quoting kblossom20:

Your husband sounds like an ignorant piece of shit. You're equally as much as a lowlife for being married to such a PIG. Honestly, I hope you don't raise kids around that filth. If you do, you should have them taken away. 




















BabiiYarellie
by Silver Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:02 AM
Ha. Yeah I thought so :). You should have asked. Hahaha...


Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Sure bitch.. Lol fuck outta here



Quoting BabiiYarellie:

The fuuuuh???? Omg lmao. Bitch please buy a book and study sarcasm. I was referring to the color black in spanish its pronounced negro. If a black person heard me say "negro" they would be offended little do they kow its just a color.


Me- says something and says word negro


person of color- what did you say? Did you call me a nigger?


Me-No I said how beautiful this black shirt is.


Now off you go.. -.-t






Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Stupid bumass bitch! I'd love to smack the shit outta you but really I wouldn't even stoop DOWN to your POOR level, bum. And racist comments normally doesn't piss me off but yo ass smh girl you better be lucky you're on line internet bitch!







Quoting BabiiYarellie:

I dont say "Nigger" or "Nigga" I use a much more offensive term, Negro.... but thats just how you sy it in Spanish. Lol






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katiehopson
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:02 AM

It depends on if you belief being gay is biological or not, but I understand what you're saying. Everyone's entitled to their emotions, so if you truly feel hatred for that, cool. I just think it's extra.

Quoting LadyDIN:

True and fair. Thank you for clarifying.

I feel that hating some one for believing in gay rights is rather different than hating someone for believing people with different skin are less human than them. 

Quoting katiehopson:

Murder. I don't throw the word around like it doesn't mean anything, and if I don't agree with someone for how they think for feel, I just disagree with them. I don't catch feelings. I'm not racist, I'm not defending racist people or actions done out of racism. But hating someone for their beliefs, and I'm not referring to racism in this situation, is a waste of passion. 

Quoting LadyDIN:

I think hateing some one for how they conduct themselves around others is better than hateing them for how or where they were born. Under what circumstances is it ok to hate someone in your opinion?

Quoting katiehopson:

Why is woman in quotations? She is a woman. That isn't debatable. But besides talking shit on your grammar, I'll talk shit on your attitude. To hate someone because of how they conduct themselves around others is simply disgusting. I have little tolerance for ignorant fools like yourself and I really hope your child doesn't adopt the same personality as yourself. 






eve210
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:05 AM
I love your replies sometimes :D

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Sure bitch.. Lol fuck outta here



Quoting BabiiYarellie:

The fuuuuh???? Omg lmao. Bitch please buy a book and study sarcasm. I was referring to the color black in spanish its pronounced negro. If a black person heard me say "negro" they would be offended little do they kow its just a color.


Me- says something and says word negro


person of color- what did you say? Did you call me a nigger?


Me-No I said how beautiful this black shirt is.


Now off you go.. -.-t






Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Stupid bumass bitch! I'd love to smack the shit outta you but really I wouldn't even stoop DOWN to your POOR level, bum. And racist comments normally doesn't piss me off but yo ass smh girl you better be lucky you're on line internet bitch!







Quoting BabiiYarellie:

I dont say "Nigger" or "Nigga" I use a much more offensive term, Negro.... but thats just how you sy it in Spanish. Lol





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A.B.C.brown07
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:05 AM
I sound stupid, lmao.

Coming from the chick threatening another chick on the Internet? Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Thanks for the laugh. ;)


Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

You sound stupid, NEXT!



Quoting A.B.C.brown07:

Calm down girl. Lol I think she was saying the word "negro" in Spanish is black. So If she was speaking Spanish and Said "negro" ppl


Outside may think she was being offensive, but really she was just saying "black"






Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Stupid bumass bitch! I'd love to smack the shit outta you but really I wouldn't even stoop DOWN to your POOR level, bum. And racist comments normally doesn't piss me off but yo ass smh girl you better be lucky you're on line internet bitch!







Quoting BabiiYarellie:

I dont say "Nigger" or "Nigga" I use a much more offensive term, Negro.... but thats just how you sy it in Spanish. Lol




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Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:05 AM

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Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:


Stupid bumass bitch! I'd love to smack the shit outta you but really I wouldn't even stoop DOWN to your POOR level, bum. And racist comments normally doesn't piss me off but yo ass smh girl you better be lucky you're on line internet bitch!

Quoting BabiiYarellie:

I dont say "Nigger" or "Nigga" I use a much more offensive term, Negro.... but thats just how you sy it in Spanish. Lol


kblossom20
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:06 AM

Perhaps, but that's doubtful. Who knows. 

Quoting Anonymous:

How do you know? Maybe both forms of the word offend her...


Quoting kblossom20:

Obviously we're not from the same parts.... Where I live, the word isn't acceptable. Period. I think it's pretty obvious that the "N" word refers to none other than the obvious "n*gger". If her husband was going around saying "Nigga" I don't think she would have created this post in the first place. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I am hardly old, just have more of an open mind then you do. Where did she say n*ggER? She said he calls them the "n" word. So how do you know what context she's using it in?

Please... A majority of our friends are black and Hispanic. Our black friends are not at all offended by it. I grew up in a predominantly black high school and heard it all the time by many people of different races. They were never offended either. (Though I don't use the term myself.)





Quoting kblossom20:

LOL.

Alright Anon, you MUST be an old crotch because you're obviously out of touch, and misinformed. Having grown up with black friends, it is MOST DEFINITELY an insult to them. Yes, they do say "Nigga" but that is different than being called a "Nigger". The word Nigger is derogatory. Plain and simple. 



Quoting Anonymous:

Your bio is there for what reason? Oh yeah, to be READ. Just because someone calls a black person n*gger does not make them racist. It is socially acceptable within the black community to call your friends that, even if one friend is of a different race. As long as it doesn't offend the people he's saying it to, then there's no problem. The problem is if he's disrespecting his wife and child(ren) by saying it in front of them, but it does not make him racist. Like I said, you are naive and judgmental.








Quoting kblossom20:

Lmao! You read my bio? You have too much time on your hands. How pathetic. Naive & judgmental because RACISM pisses me off and I said something about it? Alright then. Whatever you say, ya creepy annon.




Quoting Anonymous:

Lol, your profile is right. You are truly 22 years YOUNG. You're very naive and judgmental. You joined the perfect group for you.











Quoting kblossom20:

STFU unless you wanna come off anonymous. LOL. Call me a bitch, I just say it like it is. I may not be a mother YET but it's only COMMON SENSE. 





Quoting Anonymous:

Damn, you're a bitch. And not one to judge someone's parenting as you're not even a mom yet. Smh














Quoting kblossom20:

Your husband sounds like an ignorant piece of shit. You're equally as much as a lowlife for being married to such a PIG. Honestly, I hope you don't raise kids around that filth. If you do, you should have them taken away. 





















Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:08 AM
Do you think he is a racists? Do you think he hates black people? If the answer is no then who cares.
mamoore83
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 2:08 AM
It's still racist he doesn't have to lynch a person before he would be considered a racist


Quoting Anonymous:

He's nice to black people and all, he's not some kkk or anything. That's just what he calls them.

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