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The "N" word

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My husband calls black people that, it seriously bugs and offends me. I used to date blacks guys and so it really drive me crazy when he says it, not only that it's just so very offensive. I've told him numerous of times how awful he looks and sounds when he says this but he just won't stop. It's a constant thing and I'm kinda at my wits end here...
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:49 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:03 AM
He doesn't call them that around our kids and he's even dated a black women before, and we even have friends who are, one of his old best friends from high school his nickname is even called "nigger Reggie". He doesn't talk down on them, that's just what he calls the.
katiehopson
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:03 AM

How rude. 

Quoting kblossom20:

Your husband sounds like an ignorant piece of shit. You're equally as much as a lowlife for being married to such a PIG. Honestly, I hope you don't raise kids around that filth. If you do, you should have them taken away. 


LoveVenus
by Silver Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:04 AM

Then i guess that makes him an undercover racist.Does he call his black friend the N word?

Quoting Anonymous:

He's nice to black people and all, he's not some kkk or anything. That's just what he calls them.


BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:05 AM
Well, you're the one that married him. I'm sure he was like this before, and you knew it. Can't bother you too bad.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:05 AM
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What if your kids hear him say it and repeat it?

katiehopson
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:05 AM

Not being sarcastic.. How is that much more offensive?

Quoting BabiiYarellie:

I dont say "Nigger" or "Nigga" I use a much more offensive term, Negro.... but thats just how you sy it in Spanish. Lol


kblossom20
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:06 AM

It's NOT rude honey, it's the truth. I'd never be married to a RACIST, nor is it acceptable to raise children around them. If you don't agree with something so blatantly obvious- You're an idiot. In simple terms. Bye now.

Quoting katiehopson:

How rude. 

Quoting kblossom20:

Your husband sounds like an ignorant piece of shit. You're equally as much as a lowlife for being married to such a PIG. Honestly, I hope you don't raise kids around that filth. If you do, you should have them taken away. 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:06 AM
This makes it even more wrong on so many levels. I hope a Black person hears him sometime and gives him an ass whooping.


Quoting Anonymous:

He doesn't call them that around our kids and he's even dated a black women before, and we even have friends who are, one of his old best friends from high school his nickname is even called "nigger Reggie". He doesn't talk down on them, that's just what he calls the.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:06 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

He doesn't call them that around our kids and he's even dated a black women before, and we even have friends who are, one of his old best friends from high school his nickname is even called "nigger Reggie". He doesn't talk down on them, that's just what he calls the.

Dating a Black person, having Black friends, and having an old high school friend with that nickname are still never going to erase the fact that there is no reason whatsoever for your husband to use that word. He doesn't have to "talk down on them" to be a disrespectful racist..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 1:08 AM
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NO IT SOUNDS LIKE HE'S A MF RACIST!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE. angry

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like he's trying to "fit in" with his black friends.


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