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Oh Dear GOD!!

Anonymous
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Well my daughter (shes 11) went to her room to play...Well I walked into her room to ask her something and what do I find but her having her pants down and was masterbating, This is the first that I know of of her doing it.  I have NO clue on how to go about talking to her about this, I know this is natural but still I am embarresed....HELP...please no bashing, i know I should of knocked...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:37 PM
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TattoodMommy19
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:38 PM
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Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.
She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.
Knock next time mama. Lol
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Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:40 PM

This

Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.
She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.
Knock next time mama. Lol


sonnyswoman75
by Malisa on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:40 PM
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Its all natural...I say just act like its natural and normal or you will di more damage
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:40 PM

We just tell our son that his pee-pee is NOT a toy. Of course he's only 3. Don't know WHAT I would do when it starts for real.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:41 PM
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I will from now on, guess I am embaressed since I walked in on it knowing its a private thing.

Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.
She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.
Knock next time mama. Lol


Youngmother456
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:41 PM
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This. Don't make her feel ashamed.


Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.

She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.

Knock next time mama. Lol

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weezer_cookie
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:42 PM
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I agree. Time to knock. Masturbation is natural and not shameful. This is especially important for girls, since body issues start so early.

Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.

She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.

Knock next time mama. Lol
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Youngmother456
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:42 PM
That is understadable and I applaud you for not flipping out or throwing the bible at her. You are a good mom!


Quoting Anonymous:

I will from now on, guess I am embaressed since I walked in on it knowing its a private thing.


Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.

She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.

Knock next time mama. Lol



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ripemango
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM

i wouldn't talk to her about it. really. i would have been mortified. pretty sure i was doing that by 11...very normal.

abbie.alder
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM

Definitely do not make her feel like trash. It's a natural thing to do, just go about your day like nothing happened.

Quoting Youngmother456:

This. Don't make her feel ashamed.


Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.

She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.

Knock next time mama. Lol


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