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Oh Dear GOD!!

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Well my daughter (shes 11) went to her room to play...Well I walked into her room to ask her something and what do I find but her having her pants down and was masterbating, This is the first that I know of of her doing it.  I have NO clue on how to go about talking to her about this, I know this is natural but still I am embarresed....HELP...please no bashing, i know I should of knocked...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:37 PM
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gravercem
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM

 I would not even address it, I know how you feel I have walked in on each of my three boys doing it throught he years.  Makes you really remember to knock on the door! (only that dont help if they have their music up and cant here the knock.) 

touchingstars
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM
Calm down it perfectly natural, just knock next time
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smurfbitebug
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM
I would say it's natural as well.. but at the same time a sign that it may just be time for "THE TALK" (♪dun dun duuuunnn♪)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:44 PM

I wouldn't mention it to her...sounds like she's just a healthy pre-teen.

lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:44 PM

Go back and and sit and talk to her. tell her from now on you will knock before entering her room.  Tell her you are proud of her for doing it in the privacy of her room.

ivy801
by Gold Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:44 PM

Oh man how do you even talk about that kind of thing. My concern is just making sure she isn't being abuse, yes I know I am super super paranoid to the extreme once tha tis cleared up I guess try explaining that kind of behavior is normal but very very private. I really have no advice, let's see what others advice is.

AlwaysKISA
by Ruby Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:45 PM
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I would just casually tell her later on "sorry about earlier, I will knock from now on". And leave it at that.
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Youngmother456
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:45 PM
Oh and if you feel the need maybe just tell her that it is ok and to be sure to have clean hands and do not shove anything up there other than a dildo (which I doubt you want her to have) my point is some people experiment and then hurt themselves
I knew someone who shoved a glass bottle up their ass and that did not turn out well
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:45 PM


Quoting TattoodMommy19:

Actually, no need to even address it. Or be embarrassed.

She obviously understands it is private and to be done behind a closed door.

Knock next time mama. Lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:45 PM
Btdt

As the mom, and the girl
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