My husband got hurt at work 3 years ago (three years ago last week, to be exact) since then he's been through multiple painful procedures, some exploratory, some ment to help, because of insurance issues, he was unable to get the surgery he required & after a battle to get it, the Dr's said it was too late. We went through a lengthy court battle & are still fighting addiction because of these injuries. I know he's in pain. But I'm over it. I want my husband back, the one who could, or would wrestle with the kids.. or take put the garbage, anything other than this creature who sits on the couch all day, doing nothing. Unless it's something he wants to do (example: he's spent all day limping around, but when a friend called and asked him to go to the gun range, he could do that, now he's back to bumming around on the sofa, grunting & cringing when he moves at all)
I'm seriously starting to resent it. I can't stand to be around him. It's always something.. his back hurts, his shoulder hurts, his leg's numb, his tailbone's numb again, he's sooooo tired because the pain kept him up all night.
I know it makes me awful, but I'm going crazy & I just needed to get it out.