So dh was supposed to deploy not that long ago but he got cut from the detachment. We thought, awesome this is great! My oldest (hes 7) knew that daddy was supposed to deploy but we told him daddy got a call and hes going to stay. Well recently ds has been acting out on school. Hes a straight A student but the teacher said hes been calling out and doing things for attention. Dh, myself and ds had a meeting with his teacher and ds began to cry and say that he loves his daddy and doesn't want him to go away again. Dh got teary eyed and told him, "we spoke about this. Daddy goes away but daddy will always call you and we talk on the computer. We need soldiers, but daddy isnt leaving remember? " ds said he understood.. that he is proud of his father and loves him..... then friday the worst happened. Dh got a call that hes being deployed with a different unit. How can i break my sons heart the same week he just cried about him leaving?!?!? This is going to suck!