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Buying a porn mag for your son? Buying a vibrator for your DD?

Anonymous
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Am i the only one who thinks that is kind of going to far? Is everyone brain dead here or lying or what? I just read a post about a women who got her 12 yr old son a porn mag and another one about a mom getting her 15 yr old dd a vibrator. I mean yeah i am well aware my kids are going to grow up and have sex and watch porn and do all kinds of things i don't want to think about right now but i don't think getting a porn magazine for my 12-13 yr old son is a positve thing to post about on here. Yeah lets get him addcited to porn REALLY young! Yeah yeah i know not everyone gets addicted to porn and it can be healthy but really a 12 year old? Am i alone here on thinking this is a tad overboard?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:55 PM
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harpsichord
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:55 PM
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YOU FORGOT TO MENTION THE CUM RAG

lizmartinez
by Bronze Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:56 PM
I agree with you.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:56 PM
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No, you probably are not but I rather supply my kid and know what they are and are not doing rather than them going out and getting unclean or unsafe items on their own.

Retrokitty
by Jasmyne on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:57 PM
I wouldn't buy porn for my son only because its illegal and he can easily find it elsewhere. I'm fine with my children masturbating and if my daughters anything like me a hand does nothing. I would have no problem buying something. Though it would be awkward for me.
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cklamour
by Gold Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:58 PM
I can't imagine buying my son a porn magazine. I definitely know at 15 I was not going to buy my daughter a dildo. But these are my children and those children belong to someone else.
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Jessica_Esqueda
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:58 PM
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I think it's entirely too far. Teens masturbate. They don't need dirty magazines and sex toys to achieve an orgasm. It's completely unnecessary and desenitizes them, both physically and mentally, to sex in general. I think it's really disturbing that so many parents seem to think it's a good idea to put these objects in the hands of our kids. 

Yes, sex will happen. Hopefully not while either of my children are minors and not in a committed (lifelong??) relationship. But it WILL happen eventually. In my opinion, giving our children pornography and sexual paraphenalia is just encouraging them to be introduced to sex earlier than they need to be. The lax attitude that so many parents have about sex and sexuality scares the hell out of me.

So no... I don't think it's healthy at all.  

tiggerbabie177
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:00 AM

Not alone...12 and 15 is waaaay too early...i refuse to even let my kids date at that age...thankfully my kids arent that age yet.....just not for me....

queencreekmom
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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I would have been so grossed out if my mom did that!

thefiregoddess
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:00 AM

No I'd do it for both/either.

I would do it based on maturity level and need, not just hand them a toy/mag and go oh you hit puberty here you go.

Odds are your 17 year old son is whackin it anyways.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:00 AM

LOL, we could have decussed this in my post.

There I'll link it so people will understand why reasoning. 


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