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Buying a porn mag for your son? Buying a vibrator for your DD?

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Am i the only one who thinks that is kind of going to far? Is everyone brain dead here or lying or what? I just read a post about a women who got her 12 yr old son a porn mag and another one about a mom getting her 15 yr old dd a vibrator. I mean yeah i am well aware my kids are going to grow up and have sex and watch porn and do all kinds of things i don't want to think about right now but i don't think getting a porn magazine for my 12-13 yr old son is a positve thing to post about on here. Yeah lets get him addcited to porn REALLY young! Yeah yeah i know not everyone gets addicted to porn and it can be healthy but really a 12 year old? Am i alone here on thinking this is a tad overboard?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 11:55 PM
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by Let's Go Caps on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:15 AM

 No vibrator or porn mag buying will happen here

by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:18 AM
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It IS really sad how young kids are exploring their sexuality these days.  I'm sure it happened in onesies and twosies when we were young, but it seems to be running rampant.  I don't know if I would necessarily buy my daughter a vibrator, but I would definitely inform her of other ways to release sexual tension.  To be honest, though, when my child(ren) informs me they are interested in sex, I think it might break my heart!

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting philly_mom:

If you had taken the time to read the woman's post about buying her daughter a vibrator, you would have grasped that it was actually a very informed and responsible decision on the mother's part.  I hope to be that open and honest with my daughter (should I ever have one... I only have a son) some day.

As for the porn magazine for a 12 year old... that's going a bit far and is rather trashy, in my opinion.  A 12 year old shouldn't be sexually active, period, and if he is, I don't think the parents should encourage it.

I did read entire post and i have to agree with alot of what she did, i am not living under a rock, like i said before i know my kids will someday have sex and it is great to educate them and get them protection. I just said in my opinion buying a 14,15,16 yr old a vibrator is just too far! This is not just about her post, i see this stuff talked about on other sites and from people all over. It seems like everything is pushed just a little too far these days in my opinion.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:19 AM

And the other thing is why is everyone implying that her using a vibrator is going to keep her from having sex? I bet she still will with or without the vibrator. lol.

by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:19 AM

Porn magazine I agree with some that say that is not appropriate, I agree that is not an actual sex tool. Boys are perfectly content using their hands.

Girls, well in the other post I did catch one poster stating girls getting infectiosn from using objects. I would much rather provide a safe toy for my daughter verses wondering what she is shoving up there.... Thats a safty issue, porn magazine is not.

I do think its something I wil lconsider and talk to my 17 year old about, being safe if she masterbates with object. I never thought about that....

by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:20 AM
This. 100%

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:

I think it's entirely too far. Teens masturbate. They don't need dirty magazines and sex toys to achieve an orgasm. It's completely unnecessary and desenitizes them, both physically and mentally, to sex in general. I think it's really disturbing that so many parents seem to think it's a good idea to put these objects in the hands of our kids. 

Yes, sex will happen. Hopefully not while either of my children are minors and not in a committed (lifelong??) relationship. But it WILL happen eventually. In my opinion, giving our children pornography and sexual paraphenalia is just encouraging them to be introduced to sex earlier than they need to be. The lax attitude that so many parents have about sex and sexuality scares the hell out of me.

So no... I don't think it's healthy at all.  

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by Anonymous 9 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:21 AM
Im with you on the porn I would never buy my son porn . The 15 year old that got a vibrator I don't see anything wrong with that I mean I rather her use that then goin out having sex with random boys . I when I was 15 I was already having sex I wish my mom would have talked to me about the vibrators maybe then I wouldn't have been having sex with boys .These young kids are having sex young now .
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:22 AM

on one hand, i would rather him beat it then get some girl pregnant, on the other, i dont like the image that porn mags/videos portray about i dont think that i would be getting my son one, but if i found one in his room, i dont think im gonna bitch about it. as for the vibrator thing, idk about that one either. i guess it would just really depend on her, and what not. idk. im not there yet, my oldest is 9!

by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:22 AM
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She can masterbate like we did back in my day. With her fingers and a teddy bear. Fuck that shit.
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by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:22 AM

I'm not going to be mad if they have it, but I'm not buying it!

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:23 AM

Quoting rissamom224:

How long have you been on cafemom?

Why do u ask? Maybe a year or two but i wasnt on for months.

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