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honestly , I just broke up with

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My partner of 3 years , he has never had a job to spoil or wine and dine me .

I can't wait to meet real men that have something to offer :)

I am not sad or crying my Beautiful eyes out , I'm actually excited to get my life back ;))))))))
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:59 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:09 AM

I really honestly cannot blame you. A temp is temporary work..it won't always be there. If you cannot afford fun things to do together, have attraction, etc. there is no point in a relationship if you two aren't married and have nothing together besides kids. If there is no romance, there isn't any. I would and could not be in a relationship with someone who didn't treat me like a million bucks when I treat them wonderful.


Quoting Anonymous:

I mean he does have his Lil money enough for necessities works as a temp. But never anything left for something nice plus we have kids so there's no romance , or anything special anymore


Quoting Anonymous:

It's never good to ever be in a relationship with a guy with no job because he will always be mooching off of someone.

Shows no motivation.




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:13 AM
Physically and emotionally he can make me feel like a million bucks :)


Quoting Anonymous:

I really honestly cannot blame you. A temp is temporary work..it won't always be there. If you cannot afford fun things to do together, have attraction, etc. there is no point in a relationship if you two aren't married and have nothing together besides kids. If there is no romance, there isn't any. I would and could not be in a relationship with someone who didn't treat me like a million bucks when I treat them wonderful.



Quoting Anonymous:

I mean he does have his Lil money enough for necessities works as a temp. But never anything left for something nice plus we have kids so there's no romance , or anything special anymore





Quoting Anonymous:

It's never good to ever be in a relationship with a guy with no job because he will always be mooching off of someone.

Shows no motivation.






Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:14 AM
And sexually


Quoting Anonymous:

Physically and emotionally he can make me feel like a million bucks :)




Quoting Anonymous:

I really honestly cannot blame you. A temp is temporary work..it won't always be there. If you cannot afford fun things to do together, have attraction, etc. there is no point in a relationship if you two aren't married and have nothing together besides kids. If there is no romance, there isn't any. I would and could not be in a relationship with someone who didn't treat me like a million bucks when I treat them wonderful.




Quoting Anonymous:

I mean he does have his Lil money enough for necessities works as a temp. But never anything left for something nice plus we have kids so there's no romance , or anything special anymore








Quoting Anonymous:

It's never good to ever be in a relationship with a guy with no job because he will always be mooching off of someone.

Shows no motivation.








mummy1990
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:18 AM

Oh well then.....hes like a sahd......do you wish the roles to be switched?

Quoting Anonymous:

He takes care of our baby and kids , does work as a temp


Quoting mummy1990:

Love isn't about money, but, I sort of agree with you. If hes not offering something into the relationship, then, theres really no reason to be with someone like that.


Unless he was like a sahd or something, which that seems like its not the case maybe?


I mean, there are cheaper ways of spoiling someone, and if hes not doing it, and he hasn't had a job the whole time, then he sounds pathetic. A man that isn't willing to better himself is just using you.



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:23 AM
Hell no, he and the baby are so attached to eachother , I love sleeping , he gets up at night


Quoting mummy1990:

Oh well then.....hes like a sahd......do you wish the roles to be switched?


Quoting Anonymous:

He takes care of our baby and kids , does work as a temp





Quoting mummy1990:

Love isn't about money, but, I sort of agree with you. If hes not offering something into the relationship, then, theres really no reason to be with someone like that.


Unless he was like a sahd or something, which that seems like its not the case maybe?


I mean, there are cheaper ways of spoiling someone, and if hes not doing it, and he hasn't had a job the whole time, then he sounds pathetic. A man that isn't willing to better himself is just using you.





mummy1990
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:05 PM

Then I don't see why him not having a job could be such a problem. At first I could sympathize with you, because I thought you broke up with him because he did nothing, and didn't have a job, but since hes a sahd and takes care of the babies more than you do....you're kind of a bitch now.


Quoting Anonymous:

Hell no, he and the baby are so attached to eachother , I love sleeping , he gets up at night


Quoting mummy1990:

Oh well then.....hes like a sahd......do you wish the roles to be switched?


Quoting Anonymous:

He takes care of our baby and kids , does work as a temp





Quoting mummy1990:

Love isn't about money, but, I sort of agree with you. If hes not offering something into the relationship, then, theres really no reason to be with someone like that.


Unless he was like a sahd or something, which that seems like its not the case maybe?


I mean, there are cheaper ways of spoiling someone, and if hes not doing it, and he hasn't had a job the whole time, then he sounds pathetic. A man that isn't willing to better himself is just using you.






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