does being a awesome sahd ***** WE ARE OUT OF TOWN AND GONNA ADDRESS SOME ISSUES (UPDATE)

[Anonymous]

Compensate for never being able to buy you a piece of jewelry , or shopping sprees , something special sometimes ?



He is awesome physically and emotionally Takes care of everyone esp the baby changed diapers , feeds her, sleeps with her etcccccc



Financially. He is horrible but we do live within our means

**** So, I have been having these feelings due to other issues and we left the city yesterday, came to the country and it's very peaceful, and we have been very sressed out having just moved back to Los Angeles and starting over , settling etccc. 

WE WANT TO MOVE BACK ! We have been at my moms house and my family just loves him, and he loves my fam but the feeling is NOT mutual when it comes to his LOL well not LOL but we are going to the bluffs to have a lil tome alone and talk and figure things out , I just came back from watching twilight the breaking dawn with my cousin and friend here , and he gave me money to buy some boots so I feel good =))) I'm very happy I deserve it =) Thanks for all the advice 

[jbirdsladie27]

Yes, IMHO

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Thanks I am really weighing out my options before I make a Big mistake

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Yes, IMHO

[jbirdsladie27]

I've been there, it was worth it to me, now he works again & I don't

Quoting Anonymous:

Thanks I am really weighing out my options before I make a Big mistake

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Yes, IMHO

[itsm3]

i dno't expect my hubs to buy me any of that stuff... if i want that stuff i buy it myself. 

[LectioDivina]

If it was a temporary situation, then yes

[armywifey26]

Let's see...... material possessions or a great father for my kids..... Hmmm.... decisions decisions!

[ashleywright88]

Honestly I think it does. :) Many women would love to have a S/O like that. 

[brittany208]

YES! I dont need fancy things. In fact, if DH comes home with something for me, or buys me a present on Christmas, he will tell me how it was on sale or how cheap it was bc it makes me happier lol. We aren't living paycheck to paycheck, but I'd like to keep it that way by not wasting money on stuff we dont need.

[Kodysmommy928]

Of course.  You make money, buy your own stuff.  My husband was a SAHD for 3 years.  He had the same access to our money as I did. 

Should a working dad be upset with a SAHM because she doesn't contribute financially?

[Anonymous]

Quoting armywifey26:

Let's see...... material possessions or a great father for my kids..... Hmmm.... decisions decisions!