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If your adult daughter moved into your home with her husband

Posted by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:31 AM
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And one child because she couldn't afford to pay her bills and also couldn't afford to pay you rent and then in a 5 years time span decide to have 2 more children while telling you she can't afford to pay rent or move out what would you do?

A grandma from gymnastics is telling us her story and acting like there is nothing she can do about her adult daughter who just gave birth a week ago to the third kid.
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702girly
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:32 AM
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It wouldn't happen to me. I'd have kicked her ass out as soon as I knew she was pregnant.

You don't have more kids when you're living off of someone else because you can't support yourself. That's incredibly disrespectful.

alexsmomaubrys2
by Emerald Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:32 AM

That is a hard situation. I don't know what I would do. My first instinct would be to kick her out but I don't know if I could do that to my grandchildren. ::shrug::

I would beat myself up for raising such a daughter.

Junesmommy18
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:33 AM
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Im not sure. I wouldnt want my grandbabies out homeless.
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by Anonymous 1 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:34 AM
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My adult daughter would not move in with her husband at all. Hes the man of the house and he should figure out how to support his family. If she wanted to move in with the kids until he did, I would agree to it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:34 AM

Kick them out. 90 days or start paying rent.

Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:34 AM
Her daughter is a 'sahm' too....

Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

That is a hard situation. I don't know what I would do. My first instinct would be to kick her out but I don't know if I could do that to my grandchildren. ::shrug::

I would beat myself up for raising such a daughter.

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thehickinhickor
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:35 AM
Kids can stay adults need to get a job or get out
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kattu
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:35 AM
Teach her about birth control, obviously I failed there.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:35 AM

um... kick her ass out and kick her and her husband's ass. They are obviously taking advantage. I understand temporarily needing help, but 5 years and 2 kids later?? really?? no fucking way!

JadsW
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:35 AM
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I'd be all like, "When the fuck did I get a daughter?? And why's she an adult?? WTF?!"

That's what I'd do. ;)
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