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I wish I never tied my tubes

Anonymous
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My DH admitted to me he wish I never had gotten it done and I wish I had never done it. I want more babies so bad.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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AubreeGrace17
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:34 PM
Uhhhmmm get them untied then?
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keisha613
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:35 PM
Hugs, perhaps you can d the reversal or go throuh ivf.

I have 5 kids and sure I'm done but this is why we will never do anything permante.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:35 PM

:(

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:36 PM

We wish we didn't get dh a vasectomy.  I still don't want more babies, but he's had complications.  I'm thinking NFP would have been way better for everyone, and if we had another baby it wouldn't be the end of the world.

toopicky429
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:36 PM
I had a reversal in 2009. Good luck!
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.thatsme.
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:37 PM
That's why I will never have my tubes tied. Sorry you are going through this. :(
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:38 PM
What complications? My dh is considering a vasectomy. :-/

Quoting Anonymous:

We wish we didn't get dh a vasectomy.  I still don't want more babies, but he's had complications.  I'm thinking NFP would have been way better for everyone, and if we had another baby it wouldn't be the end of the world.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:43 PM

The pain never went completely away.  He doesn't get as hard as he used to-and I don't know if it's an actual physical problem or it's all in his head kwim?  And the nut doesn't spurt out as strongly as it used to.  We did it because it was cheaper, less complicated, easier, blah blah blah.  Now I'm thinking men just don't report complications as often as women. 

Quoting Anonymous:

What complications? My dh is considering a vasectomy. :-/

Quoting Anonymous:

We wish we didn't get dh a vasectomy.  I still don't want more babies, but he's had complications.  I'm thinking NFP would have been way better for everyone, and if we had another baby it wouldn't be the end of the world.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:47 PM
Oh wow... I should tell dh this. Thanks for sharing.

Quoting Anonymous:

The pain never went completely away.  He doesn't get as hard as he used to-and I don't know if it's an actual physical problem or it's all in his head kwim?  And the nut doesn't spurt out as strongly as it used to.  We did it because it was cheaper, less complicated, easier, blah blah blah.  Now I'm thinking men just don't report complications as often as women. 


Quoting Anonymous:

What complications? My dh is considering a vasectomy. :-/


Quoting Anonymous:


We wish we didn't get dh a vasectomy.  I still don't want more babies, but he's had complications.  I'm thinking NFP would have been way better for everyone, and if we had another baby it wouldn't be the end of the world.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:51 PM

Yeah, I wish we had heard from a man who had these complications.  We did our research & talked to 3 or 4 men who did it.  Everything sounded great.  Maybe it was fine for those men (or maybe it's just too embarrasing to admit everything it not okay in that department), but not for mine.  But I am glad I didn't get my tubes tied; a few women I know have had issues with that too. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh wow... I should tell dh this. Thanks for sharing.

Quoting Anonymous:

The pain never went completely away.  He doesn't get as hard as he used to-and I don't know if it's an actual physical problem or it's all in his head kwim?  And the nut doesn't spurt out as strongly as it used to.  We did it because it was cheaper, less complicated, easier, blah blah blah.  Now I'm thinking men just don't report complications as often as women. 


Quoting Anonymous:

What complications? My dh is considering a vasectomy. :-/


Quoting Anonymous:


We wish we didn't get dh a vasectomy.  I still don't want more babies, but he's had complications.  I'm thinking NFP would have been way better for everyone, and if we had another baby it wouldn't be the end of the world.


 


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