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having some one else join your sex life?

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 Okay so pretty much Ive been thinking about giving my husband a 3 sum. Heres the thing years ago he had the chance to have one ( i had a friend of mine join) he could of had a three sum an he backed out an said he didnt want to go threw with it becuase it was a friend of mine an he didnt want me to think that he wanted her like that as any more then a one time three sum.

Okay well  in reality my husband only wants one once just to say he has done an to try something new. Which I do believe  because we'ev tried many things in an out of the bed room just once to say that we've tried them. ...  Any ways Ive really been thinking about trying to find some one to do this with for him but I wouldnt even know where to start any suggestions? Im sure people will bash but it isnt really going to change my mind , we've been together for years an I know he isnt going any where I would jsut like to give him that experience so he can say hes tryed it.  I would preefer it not be some one we know or close with maybe some one I could make my friend later on or just some one we see this one time I dont know but I dont even know where to start any ideas?

Thanks in advance , I will answer any questions any one has but doubtfull I will respond to any bashing jsut because im in a good mood to day an dont fell llike dealing with any thing negative. !

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:29 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:43 PM
Someone you know is best (std free friend). Be careful. Know you are100% okay with it. Good luck!
AF2011
by Ruby Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:44 PM

I couldn't share my SO with anyone

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:44 PM
DH and I have had luck on Craigslist, but most times we have just been talking to a woman, put out and picked up the vibe and it happens. I wouldnt advise doing it with a friend or anyone you know. That makes it too easy for emotions to be involved (which is an absolute no-no) or can be awkward afterwards.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:44 PM
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You want your mans dick in another bitch? Fuck that noise.
Lovemyfamilyof8
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:44 PM

 Not for us.... we are for each other and only each other.... honestly is makes me ill to think about something like that.

tarakay0417
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:48 PM
Make an ad on craigslist?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:51 PM

 

Quoting tarakay0417:

Make an ad on craigslist?

 hmm wounder if it would work? I know some people think Im crazy but we've been together for years at a pretty young age started having a family at a young age ect.  an trying new things  can be fun . figured try it once an if its not for us then it not . He had a chacen befoer but it was witha close friend of mine an made him uncomfortable that it was one of my friends if that makes any sense? I dont know jsut figured why not.

datcrazyhoe
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:51 PM

Um, yeahh...not my thing to sit back and watch my man w/some other chic.  Another guy different story...lmao lmao  To each their own, its just sex.  Just as long as you could both handle the jealousy that could lingerr around after its all said and done. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:55 PM

 

Quoting datcrazyhoe:

Um, yeahh...not my thing to sit back and watch my man w/some other chic.  Another guy different story...lmao lmao  To each their own, its just sex.  Just as long as you could both handle the jealousy that could lingerr around after its all said and done. 

 I m bi any ways an have been way befoer I ever met my husband. I honestly wouldnt be jealous just because I know he loves me an is all about me lol. I already know he would never persue a relationship ect because he can barely handle me an my needyness lol. As far as a another guy my husband could never handle me being with another guy lol he gets jealous when I even talk to other guys lol. I think when its all said an done we would be just fine. We've been together along time an been threw ALOT that most couples out age havent been threw an  were grounded people in general expecially when it comes to our relationship. Im very confident in us lol.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:55 PM

hmmmm that's a slippery slope you're treading on there momma...I was in the lifestyle for sometime...i saw the good and the bad sides regarding couples swinging (I was the toss in)...swinging or sharing your partner can be something that creates a stronger bond, but also one that can tear it apart....You really never know completely how either one of you will react until it's presented to you...if you or he has any jealous tendencies whatsoever regardless if you find a girl from your neighborhood, a mutual gal pal or an adult dating site it can be nearly deadly for your marriage (IMO)..

A couple months ago, dh and I had the chance to bring home a girl for both of us to share....at the last minute, he changed his mind, telling me he didn't want that, that sex between us, was just that between us (and honestly I was somewhat relieve)..

So, some fantasies, are good to live out, while others are better to be kept as fanasies...

Regardless, alot of communication BEFORE and groud rules need to be set up....

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