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having some one else join your sex life?

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 Okay so pretty much Ive been thinking about giving my husband a 3 sum. Heres the thing years ago he had the chance to have one ( i had a friend of mine join) he could of had a three sum an he backed out an said he didnt want to go threw with it becuase it was a friend of mine an he didnt want me to think that he wanted her like that as any more then a one time three sum.

Okay well  in reality my husband only wants one once just to say he has done an to try something new. Which I do believe  because we'ev tried many things in an out of the bed room just once to say that we've tried them. ...  Any ways Ive really been thinking about trying to find some one to do this with for him but I wouldnt even know where to start any suggestions? Im sure people will bash but it isnt really going to change my mind , we've been together for years an I know he isnt going any where I would jsut like to give him that experience so he can say hes tryed it.  I would preefer it not be some one we know or close with maybe some one I could make my friend later on or just some one we see this one time I dont know but I dont even know where to start any ideas?

Thanks in advance , I will answer any questions any one has but doubtfull I will respond to any bashing jsut because im in a good mood to day an dont fell llike dealing with any thing negative. !

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:29 PM
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piratehooker
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:55 PM
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This is just nasty. Improve your blow job skills, go to a sex shop and buy a swing. Make some porn.
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piratehooker
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:57 PM
There are a lot of things we think we might like doing but are bad ideas. I want to jump off a building but I know that's rely a stupid thing. I encourage you to explore other ideas.


Quoting Anonymous:

 


Quoting piratehooker:

Sounds like he's apprehensive about it? Why push that on him? It's almost guaranteed to fuck up your relationship. You can't take it back after its done.

 i mean he's the one who has suggested it  before an after he had his chance. I just want to give him the opportunity if he wants it . He would know up front if it something he doenst want to do he doesnt have to hes not the type of person to do things jsut because others want him to lol.  I dnt want him to want to do it then later regret that I didnt "allow" him the chance to. if that makes sense?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:58 PM
I'd hire a call girl. Someone who has done couples from a high price escort company.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:58 PM

 yes I understand what your saying he had backed out before when it was one of my friends. An I think it was becuase it was one of my friend i mean thats what he says. He still brings it up an teases about it so I would assume he wants to try. I mean he says he does.   Im not a jealous person any more but he is jsut not when it comes to girls if that makes sense?  did any of that makes sense lol? HE has said many times he just wwants it to be a one time thing an nothing more jsut so he can say he has tried it .

Quoting Anonymous:

hmmmm that's a slippery slope you're treading on there momma...I was in the lifestyle for sometime...i saw the good and the bad sides regarding couples swinging (I was the toss in)...swinging or sharing your partner can be something that creates a stronger bond, but also one that can tear it apart....You really never know completely how either one of you will react until it's presented to you...if you or he has any jealous tendencies whatsoever regardless if you find a girl from your neighborhood, a mutual gal pal or an adult dating site it can be nearly deadly for your marriage (IMO)..

A couple months ago, dh and I had the chance to bring home a girl for both of us to share....at the last minute, he changed his mind, telling me he didn't want that, that sex between us, was just that between us (and honestly I was somewhat relieve)..

So, some fantasies, are good to live out, while others are better to be kept as fanasies...

Regardless, alot of communication BEFORE and groud rules need to be set up....

 

Yogamom08
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:59 PM
Go to a swingers club
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 1:59 PM

 

Quoting piratehooker:

This is just nasty. Improve your blow job skills, go to a sex shop and buy a swing. Make some porn.

 oh no weve done all those things. as far as blowjobs go I do damn good at those he can barely handle them lol. I just think maybe its more of something to try one time to say youve done it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:00 PM

 

Quoting Yogamom08:

Go to a swingers club

 him I wounder if we have any of those in our area?

datcrazyhoe
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:00 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

 

Quoting datcrazyhoe:

Um, yeahh...not my thing to sit back and watch my man w/some other chic.  Another guy different story...lmao lmao  To each their own, its just sex.  Just as long as you could both handle the jealousy that could lingerr around after its all said and done. 

 I m bi any ways an have been way befoer I ever met my husband. I honestly wouldnt be jealous just because I know he loves me an is all about me lol. I already know he would never persue a relationship ect because he can barely handle me an my needyness lol. As far as a another guy my husband could never handle me being with another guy lol he gets jealous when I even talk to other guys lol. I think when its all said an done we would be just fine. We've been together along time an been threw ALOT that most couples out age havent been threw an  were grounded people in general expecially when it comes to our relationship. Im very confident in us lol.

 Well then my dear...start that search!! lol  Hope you find that riight chic...boy, oh boy is your husband a lucky guy!!  Wishing you tons of luck and FUN!! ;)

Yogamom08
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:00 PM
Google it lol

Quoting Anonymous:

 


Quoting Yogamom08:

Go to a swingers club

 him I wounder if we have any of those in our area?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:09 PM

try meetme.com i did and it worked.

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