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Stop mutilating your babies!!!!

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http://www.drmomma.org/2010_03_01_archive.html

Why did my loving parents do this to me many years ago?

I’m sure their doctor told them it was the hygienic thing to do. But I’m equally sure I must have been screaming like hell while it was being done. Today, millions of circumcisions are still performed. But it’s time to stop this shocking brutality and the complications associated with it.

Dr. Guy Madder, a surgeon at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Adelaide, Australia, reports in the Annals of Family Medicine that there is no convincing evidence that circumcision decreases the risk of sexually transmitted disease, urinary tract infections, or penile cancer.

The rituals of some religious faiths advocate circumcision. But, apart from these circumstances, it’s hard to justify this procedure. In fact, a reading of the world’s medical journals makes your hair stand on end when you read of potential surgical complications.

How common are complications? This depends on how you label a complication. For example, penal foreskin is anatomically the most sensitive part of the organ. It ensures satisfactory sex. It’s therefore reasonable to argue that in this instance the complication rate is 100% because it decreases sexual satisfaction.

There’s another aspect to circumcision that is never mentioned in the discussion of the pros and cons of this surgery. Today, erectile dysfunction (ED) drugs are being used by an increasing number of males, and many of them are not in their senior years. I admit, I have no hard statistics on this matter. [Editor's note: recent ED statistics are outlined in The Rise of Viagra]

But I wonder how many males who require ED drugs could have experienced a longer and more satisfactory sex life, if this sensitive organ had not been removed. I suspect more than we realize. This is a great project for some aspiring researcher!

But why do some of the complications of this procedure make one’s hair stand on end? Harvey Cushing, one of Harvard’s greatest brain surgeons, once remarked that, “There is no such thing as minor surgery, but there are a lot of minor surgeons.” In this case, a profound remark.

Compared to brain surgery, circumcision is a minor procedure, and is normally performed without complications. But, no surgical procedure to my knowledge has ever been devised, regardless of how minor it is, without possible untoward results.

The world’s medical journals are full of reports dealing with a variety of surgical complications. And the vast majority of severe complications are not an act of God, but technical human errors made during the procedure.

A primary problem is the incorrect use of the circumcision clamp. In some cases too much foreskin is pulled into the clamp resulting in injury, not only to the shaft of the penis, but also to the urinary tube (urethra) that runs through it. The most traumatic complication in the past caused the amputation of part of the penis.

Such traumatic injuries to the penis and urethra often result in urinary stricture and difficulty passing urine. Or, the injury may result in a urethral fistula, in which urine is discharged through an abnormal opening. These complications are not easy to repair, and what starts out as a minor procedure, becomes a major one. Moreover, some of these injuries only become apparent following discharge from hospital. A fistula often takes weeks or months to make its presence known.

There have been bizarre problems that one would never think of happening. For instance, one newborn screamed during the procedure with such intensity that the stomach ruptured, requiring additional emergency surgery.

Another had heart failure [heart attack] from the circumcision surgery and died.

Still another died from a bleeding disorder post-op. It’s easy to see how this could happen since coagulation studies are not routinely done prior to circumcision surgery.

Why wouldn’t babies scream like hell when circumcised without anesthesia? And how many males who have it done later in life would agree to this procedure without anesthesia?

Today we criticize those cultures that believe in the barbaric act of female circumcision. Yet Western doctors continue to carry out this sadistic procedure in males without their permission. That’s why many argue that circumcision violates the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights. Amen to that.

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There are more links and good reads on the website. This isn't a debate. You are playing with fire and potentially scarring your son for life. Please be factually informed before you chop it off. You may sit back and say "Well, my baby/son never had problems, he is set for life!" Look at the increase of men looking to reverse it and now looking to help for ED. The complications may not be present at first, but they will come at a vengence later.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:02 PM
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mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:11 PM
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 I just came from the post of 100's of dead babies. Pictures of loved babies in their coffins. So this shit means squat compared to the loss of a child. The way I see it, even circumcised children are loved, wanted and alive. So fucking drop this shit

sheramom4
by Ruby Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:13 PM
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The only men I know who were traumatized by circumcision were those who had to have it done as adults....I have asked my husband and he said it really doesn't matter to him, he would not have kept it clean as a teen if he wasn't circed.

sarah.xo
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:13 PM
1 mom liked this
*bang head here*
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StrawberryCool
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:14 PM

my son will NOT be snipped

LovingSAHMommy
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:15 PM

Lmfao. This is all bullshit.

Quoting Anonymous:

Out of 100 Circumcised boys:

75 will not readily breastfeed post-op

55 will have adverse reactions from the surgery

35 will have post-op hemorrhaging to one degree or another

31 will develop meatal ulcers

10 will need to have the circumcision surgery repeated to fix prior surgical problems/error
8 will suffer infection at the surgical site

3 will develop post-operative phimosis

2 will have a more serious complication (seizure, heart attack, stroke, loss of penis, death)

1 will require additional immediate surgery and sutures to stop hemorrhage

1 will develop fibrosis

1 will develop phimosis

1 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (urinary tract infection)

1 will be treated with antibiotics for surgical site infection

Of those who do receive pain medication for the surgery (about 4% of those boys undergoing circumcision in the U.S.) some will have adverse reactions to the pain medication injected


Out of 100 Intact boys:

2 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted)

1 will be told to get cut later in life for one reason or another (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted)


layawatling
by Laya on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:15 PM
Backing out...
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zianneaaliyah
by 4ever LMFAO on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:17 PM

LOL! You're 5 years too late. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:17 PM
It's not that, we've just heard it all before.


Quoting Anonymous:

Seriously you guys are FAST readers if you READ all of the FACTS on this website and came back with an informed argument. Kudos to you. Must be a record!


YzmaRocks
by Ruby Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:17 PM
Accusing women who circumcise of mutilating their babies is not going to change anyone's mind on the issue. It is only going to make people defensive and argumentative. If you truly wanted to help, not start a fight, you would have worded your title and your post in an informative manner. As it is, you just wanted a fight. Nothing more.
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Mama_Dolly
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:18 PM

my hubby and I decided not to circ our son. (I left it up to him, since I said I would like him to be like his daddy *who is circ* but wished his mom and dad didnt do that for him.) if he wants to get circed later he can. we did our research and decided that this was best for our son.

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