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To send or not to send? POLL

Anonymous
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Question: Let ds go or no?

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my sons dad just texted me and asked if ds could go camping with him Friday night. Ds is 4 yrs old. It's been 2 yrs since he has spent the night(his dads choice). And it's november so weather isn't that great in the desert(cold nights). He originally forfeited the offered time on thanksgiving and asked for the day Friday and I agreed. Now he wants this. Ugh. Ds does see him, Tuesday/Thursday 3-7pm and saturday 9am-7pm.

Should I try to convince his dad not to take him overnight?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:27 PM
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UgtaBkdnMe
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:29 PM

2 years? Why so long?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:57 PM
Quoting UgtaBkdnMe:

2 years? Why so long?



His gf refused to sleep on the couch and I wasn't approving ds sharing a bed with both of thsm
bellaamore
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:59 PM
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Id let the kid decide. Make sure dad agrees to bring him home if hewants to come home.

meka26
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:01 PM

I would let DS decide. If the weather is an issue, I would mention it to him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:01 PM
Quoting bellaamore:

Id let the kid decide. Make sure dad agrees to bring him home if hewants to come home.



I know for a fact he won't bring him home
wkukid
by Beach Bum on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:04 PM
I wouldn't send him. The dad let his gf dictate if he could see his son for two years basically. He can't just have him when he wants him.
mich.el.le
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:10 PM

How cold is cold?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:23 PM

No

semamaearth
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:26 PM

abosolutley not. when he's older and cane make that decision for himself, sure, but he's 4 and his dad has chosen the gf over him for 2 yrs. nope.

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