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No BM. I'm not going to watch your kids because you didnt plan ahead.

Anonymous
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I got a sitter for my little one on Wednesday so I can get some Xmas shopping done and do some last minute things for thanksgiving.

I was informed that I my stepkids will be here on Tuesday and Wednesday because mom has to work as does dad. I told mom I was going to be out of the house and that they can either stay with the sitter. Or she can come get them. Neither option is ok with her. She's gonna be super pissed when she comes to get them and theyare here with the sitter.

Dads ok with this. And even of he wasnt he can figure out what to do with them. I'm not canceling what I need to get done just because she has poor planning.

Just a vent I guess.

And before you guys go all apeshit about evil stepmom bullshit. Don't bother. My SO has 50% custody of his kids and since I am for the most part a SAHM I do a majority of the childcare. So I take care of them all the time. And this is a new thing the school is doing with the week off before thanksgiving.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:35 PM
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Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:36 PM
Why doesn't she want them with a sitter?

How old are they?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:38 PM
Because she doesn't like them to stay with anyone but family.

They are 11 and 8 I also have a 14 year old.

Quoting Litlmama87:

Why doesn't she want them with a sitter?



How old are they?
4noodles4me
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:38 PM
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Your right bad planning on her part not yours. Happy shopping!
Oh and make sure she or dh pay the sitter!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:39 PM
Thanks.

Although I'm sure I will get the phone calls after she picks them up. Ugh. Time to hot the ignore button I guess.

Quoting 4noodles4me:

Your right bad planning on her part not yours. Happy shopping!
Bknotnobody
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:40 PM
Have fun shopping!
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Tigress22304
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:42 PM
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I"m a sahm as well-and if I had plans-and my DD was taken care of (whether she's at school or with a sitter) I wouldn't change my plans for BM or DH because of the skids.

At your skids's ages-I think they can handle being with a babysitter.

Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:42 PM
Oh they're not babies, she's just going to have to get over it lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Because she doesn't like them to stay with anyone but family.



They are 11 and 8 I also have a 14 year old.



Quoting Litlmama87:

Why doesn't she want them with a sitter?





How old are they?
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FatCatsMomma
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:43 PM
Have fun shopping!! Enjoy your day alone!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:44 PM
That's what I'm saying. She's just wants to bitch about something.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:47 PM
I don't see what her issue is.

She jut wants something to biych about.

Like I'm supposed to be at her beck and call.

Quoting Tigress22304:

I"m a sahm as well-and if I had plans-and my DD was taken care of (whether she's at school or with a sitter) I wouldn't change my plans for BM or DH because of the skids.

At your skids's ages-I think they can handle being with a babysitter.

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