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No BM. I'm not going to watch your kids because you didnt plan ahead.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I got a sitter for my little one on Wednesday so I can get some Xmas shopping done and do some last minute things for thanksgiving.

I was informed that I my stepkids will be here on Tuesday and Wednesday because mom has to work as does dad. I told mom I was going to be out of the house and that they can either stay with the sitter. Or she can come get them. Neither option is ok with her. She's gonna be super pissed when she comes to get them and theyare here with the sitter.

Dads ok with this. And even of he wasnt he can figure out what to do with them. I'm not canceling what I need to get done just because she has poor planning.

Just a vent I guess.

And before you guys go all apeshit about evil stepmom bullshit. Don't bother. My SO has 50% custody of his kids and since I am for the most part a SAHM I do a majority of the childcare. So I take care of them all the time. And this is a new thing the school is doing with the week off before thanksgiving.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:35 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:49 PM
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Thanks. I try to get out of the house without any kids at least twice a month.

Quoting Bknotnobody:

Have fun shopping!
jbirdsladie27
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:51 PM
Tell her to GET OVER IT!! Leave them with the sitter & have fun doing what ya got to do :)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:54 PM
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I am so going to have fun. Shipping with no kids is like a dream come true. Lol.

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Tell her to GET OVER IT!! Leave them with the sitter & have fun doing what ya got to do :)
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:59 PM
It's not like leaving them tied up in a closet.

And the kids know the babysitter. She's watched them before. And man oh man was BM mad when she found out.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:16 PM
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Tigress22304
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:38 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't see what her issue is.

She jut wants something to biych about.

Like I'm supposed to be at her beck and call.

Quoting Tigress22304:

I"m a sahm as well-and if I had plans-and my DD was taken care of (whether she's at school or with a sitter) I wouldn't change my plans for BM or DH because of the skids.

At your skids's ages-I think they can handle being with a babysitter.

well if that's the case-Hold your hand out and tell her your hourly rate :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:41 PM
Bahahaha.

That's hilarious.

Next time ill try that one. She what she says.

Quoting Tigress22304:


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't see what her issue is.



She jut wants something to biych about.



Like I'm supposed to be at her beck and call.



Quoting Tigress22304:

I"m a sahm as well-and if I had plans-and my DD was taken care of (whether she's at school or with a sitter) I wouldn't change my plans for BM or DH because of the skids.

At your skids's ages-I think they can handle being with a babysitter.

well if that's the case-Hold your hand out and tell her your hourly rate :)

Tigress22304
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:42 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

Bahahaha.

That's hilarious.

Next time ill try that one. She what she says.

Quoting Tigress22304:


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't see what her issue is.



She jut wants something to biych about.



Like I'm supposed to be at her beck and call.



Quoting Tigress22304:

I"m a sahm as well-and if I had plans-and my DD was taken care of (whether she's at school or with a sitter) I wouldn't change my plans for BM or DH because of the skids.

At your skids's ages-I think they can handle being with a babysitter.

well if that's the case-Hold your hand out and tell her your hourly rate :)

seriously if you have to stop your life for her-you need some kinda of compensation!

MichelleSw
by CoolStory on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:45 PM

Normally these posts ,SM is crazy... This situation, I finally agree. She has issues and will have to deal with it or she can get her kids.

aiyess
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:47 PM
Sucks to be her.
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