Seriously, if men were allowed on a parenting forum, and started thread after thread about the state of a young girl's vagina, we would all be calling the police on them.
And yet, daily, there are 5 posts about women talking about the state of a child's penis.
Hypocritical? (my bad, grammar nazi's)
Do what is best for your family, then stop talking about it. There is zero need for women to obsess over my son's penis. Or your son's penis. Or her son's penis.