im in a dilemma and I need advice from others.
IF you could choose which would you do.
move to family farm and live next door to a sibling that you hate and is only greedy and takes and causes friction.....but you could live in a home free only paying utilities and be allowed to take over the farm land and use it such as in gardening, hay, cleaning up the woods, etc.
move far away and be free from all of the tension but lose on ever getting any land in the future when my parents die and it all go to the sibling that is the problem which they would eventually sell.
this has been in the family for over 50 years.
am i being too stubborn or should I stand my ground and demand my fair share?
what would you do? is it worth it to literally fight for the land?
i want serious answers!