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Hmmm. I have no clue what to think on this

Anonymous
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So DH and I are getting a divorce. There is no going back. I tried but he would rather drink and do drugs. So fast forward

Last night I had dinner with my high school boyfriend. Haven't seen him in years. Just dinner with a friend. Or so I thought. Then he tells me ours was the best relationship he ever had. Then today I get a good morning text and an offer of breakfast and coffee.

My divorce isn't final yet and I am not wanting to date anyway. He is a nice guy and it was almost 20 years ago that we broke up. I'd like to hang out as friends.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:15 PM
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Baybeelove88
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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So tell him that
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Amy_M
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:16 PM

You need to be up front and honest with him, if not feelings will probably get hurt.

tarakay0417
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:16 PM
You need to tell him your intensions. So he doesn't think there will be more.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:17 PM
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Tell him you'd just like to be friends and see where the relationship heads. 

momof2girls89
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:18 PM
Just be honest.
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jpoveda2000
by Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:18 PM
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It is obvious he is interested in you. I understand that you want to wait until your divorce is final.  If you would consider hanging out with him... You are also interested in him... Don't lie to yourself. You will hook up with him soon.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:18 PM
I haven't even taken my ring off yet. I told him I have no Interest in seeing anyone soon weeks ago. We live in different cities. He was my first love. But I have changed so much.


Quoting Amy_M:

You need to be up front and honest with him, if not feelings will probably get hurt.


SweetMama823
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:19 PM
So let him know right now before he think more.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:20 PM
We have history. But I am not interested in hooking up. Not with him or anyone. I want to sit back and heal from this divorce first. Because I am still heartbroken that it ended the way it did.


Quoting jpoveda2000:

It is obvious he is interested in you. I understand that you want to wait until your divorce is final.  If you would consider hanging out with him... You are also interested in him... Don't lie to yourself. You will hook up with him soon.


squeekers
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 9:20 PM

 dont rebound quite so fast. take time to mourn the end of your marriage first.

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