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im so sad .. i cant wrap my mind around it

Anonymous
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We went Thanksgiving shopping. My dh looked over my detailed list and said yeah looks good, lets go ahead and get it all. We got everything we needed. Then we walk out after paying and he starts putting me down saying why are you sad? I just bought you stuff to make Thanksgiving and you cost me a fortune. You are never happy when I spend money. We could have had a rotisserie chicken and mashed potatoes and saved all this money.

I am feeding his buddies from his unit like he requested I do. He saw the list and he approved. Even added extra things. He made me feel like shit about it.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:19 PM
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Momof5kids84
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:21 PM
Sorry. :(
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Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:22 PM
Well why are you sad?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:23 PM
Because he blames me for Thanksgiving even existing. He acts happy and ready to shop then sees the total price and flips out. He even put other things off the list in the cart.


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Well why are you sad?




Cheribomb
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:24 PM

why were you all sad after you got the dinner you wanted to get?  

wintermermaid
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:24 PM
Honestly it sounds like miscommunication.... He's trying to make you happy and you're trying to make him happy and then neither one is happy. I'd suggest the love languages book as well as maybe working on communication. I think you are both looking for different responses to meet your needs.
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Aslen
by Ruby Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:25 PM
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
Stop ttaking his shit!
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ihave1
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:26 PM

 let it go, life is to short for fights like this.  Sorry tho hope you get to feeling better. 

mama_2_jasper
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:27 PM
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Have a drink and chill out!
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Emmasmommy52212
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:28 PM

Next time tell him to do it himself. He cant ask u to do something, then get all pissy about it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:31 PM
Do not even react. He is looking for your reaction. If he gets none it will not continue. No more whoa is me stuff! When he spouts out his guilt, respond with, let me get Christopher Columbus and those bastard pilgrims on the phone, all the while you are rolling your eyes. Because that is redunculous behavior and needs to be treated as such.
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