My BF and I are together and have been for a while
i am pretty much a home body, I do enjoy spending time with friends, but I will host a wine party or on a more social night, where both of our friends are there, I will sit back at home and serve beers.
I don't do anything special with my looks, my hair stays the same, I wear minimal make up, and only when I have to work or do something special. Pretty plain when it comes to dressing as well, the most I do is dress business formal for work, the rest of the time it's jeans and a sweater or plain shirt. I don't do my nails, don't dye my hair, I do nothing that requires extra attention besides waxing.
I stay home a lot, study and work, that's pretty much my life. I am just focused on being a mom, making money, and getting educated. 1 2 and 3
Well my guy enjoys the look of women, as do I, I appreciate a beautiful woman, I have no problems complimenting a pretty lady, just how I am. But he seems to like to look at women with fake boobies, an extreme amount of make up, and obviously fake hair in some way. ( I will admit he knows I enjoy looking at hott men too, and they look absolutely nothing like him, not that he's not hot, but I mean PURE EYE CANDY, but I just look at them like a piece of art and keep it moving.)
So I was like, do you want me to get dressed up more because thats what seems to catch your eye.
He says "No I don't want you to do anything, you are perfect the way you are, and you don't even try."
So sweet but why look at these women like this if you think I am perfect? KWIM???
Then one day I told him I wanted to dye my hair, but like with highlights. he tells me he doesn't want me to because he likes the way it is. So now I am just confused.
Is it that men enjoy eye candy but just want a down to earth woman to be with, or is there something wrong with this?