Now, I have an instant reflex for when people come up behind me and I don't know it. Its to hit like my life depended on it, and ask questions later. Everyone that knows me, knows this. Even the boys, so why he did it, I had no idea!
As soon as he did it, I swung. I didn't know it was him!!!! I stopped myself mid-swing, and he just laughed, and took off running! I went back to putting up the rest of the stuff, and told them not to do it again, that they know better.
I was almost done, and I heard walking behind me. I looked, but didn't see anyone. I had the last glass in the cabinet, when I got grabbed on the shoulders again, and shook again! Once more, I swung out. I stopped myself, before I even turned.
Yes I yelled at him. I did NOT touch him. My brothers was outside smoking, and comes in, getting in MY face, telling me never to talk to his kids again. He wouldn't even let me explain what happened. Just kept saying he didn't want to hear it, and if I ever yelled at his kids again, I would be picking myself up off the floor.
I just walked away, and went into my room. I stayed there the rest of the time they were here. I don't feel I was out of line. I think that HE was for threatening me. His kid should not have been shaking me and coming up on me from behind, when the kid KNOWS not to do that.