Now, I have an instant reflex for when people come up behind me and I don't know it. Its to hit like my life depended on it, and ask questions later. Everyone that knows me, knows this. Even the boys, so why he did it, I had no idea!
As soon as he did it, I swung. I didn't know it was him!!!! I stopped myself mid-swing, and he just laughed, and took off running! I went back to putting up the rest of the stuff, and told them not to do it again, that they know better.
I was almost done, and I heard walking behind me. I looked, but didn't see anyone. I had the last glass in the cabinet, when I got grabbed on the shoulders again, and shook again! Once more, I swung out. I stopped myself, before I even turned.
Yes I yelled at him. I did NOT touch him. My brothers was outside smoking, and comes in, getting in MY face, telling me never to talk to his kids again. He wouldn't even let me explain what happened. Just kept saying he didn't want to hear it, and if I ever yelled at his kids again, I would be picking myself up off the floor.
I just walked away, and went into my room. I stayed there the rest of the time they were here. I don't feel I was out of line. I think that HE was for threatening me. His kid should not have been shaking me and coming up on me from behind, when the kid KNOWS not to do that.
Yeah, I agree with you. Whatever reasons you have for being uncomfortable with that, the kid isn't taking it seriously and thinks it's funny. He probably didn't mean anything malicious, per se, probably no more than people who tickle you even if you don't like it... but he still needs to learn that's really not cool. And your brother sounds like a jerk. :\ It sounds to me like both of them owe you an apology.
I'd have yelled over him at that point, and told him that his son was knowingly doing something that sets of your anxiety, and physically shaking you. I know what you are talking about. If someone tickles me, I will phyisically lash out, and I absolutely have to struggle to control it...DH ended up with a badly bruised hip once because I jabbed him with me knee (he knew I didn't mean to).
I'd also tell him that he better think twice before threatening you again...if he or his sons ever lay another hand on you, that you WILL call the police.
Since you let it slide, I'd call him on the phone or leave a message with him.
You weren't and your brother is a hot head. My kid would be picking himself up off the floor if he did that twice to his aunt. I punched my sister in the face because my dad through her into my back while I was reading a lable at walmart. I just reacted. I'm generally not that sensative but it's still not nice or safe. What if you droped something and broke it?
When brother calms down, I'd inform him that in your home... you will react however you feel you need to react to a situation. If he doesn't like it, he knows where the door is.
This lady just cussed me out for not watching my kid at chick fil a
But I thought models were hired to be role models...
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