I am ready to meet my BF's daughter but I am not sure what exactly to do.
I was going to plan for it to be a day when I have my son but I think I want to wait a little longer before he meets my son, not that there's anything wrong with him meeting him, but I only get 4 days a weeks with my son and I really prefer to see my other family in that time as well, and not take any time away from those days. So I just want to wait til maybe a vacation when I have him a whole week or something.
Anywho she is going to be 5. She is a ballerina, she is also a little tomboy, he has been raising her on his own so you could just imagine, she has her grandma and aunt as mother figures to her and thats about it. He has made it clear to me that he will not bring me in her life if I am going to walk out because thats the last thing she needs, and I completely agree so i am taking this seriously. I basically, if we follow through on plans, will be like a mother to her eventually because if we all hit it off, he is moving in to my place and bringing her along. :)
So what do I do?
Do I just let her hang out at home with us and watch a movie?
Should I take her to do something fun?
Go to the zoo perhaps? or to the exploratorium, it's like a kids museum full of interractive activities in san francisco, etc etc
Should I get him to drop us off at the mall and take her to get her nails done and maybe get her some stuff from sanrio
I am so lost on what to do
I have never been in this situation before and I don't have a daughter so I am most clueless./