See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
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Anyway, our eldest is almost 11. We are pretty laid back parents about somethings (i don't mind blue streaks in her hair, make up, etc..).. and strict on others.
Recently, in a parenting group in church... one family (that we respect) mentioned that they set a rule (a serious one) that their kids aren't one-on-one dating until they are 18. They feel that there really is no reason for a private date prior to that age.
I really can't disagree with them. I started hanging out with boys (going out and dating and such) when I was 12. The results weren't good... But I was also very independent and can't imagine having that much control over my kid when they are 15-17 years old....
DH revealed that he has felt the same way as this couple for a while now, but he hasn't mentioned it yet.
What do you think?
What age will you allow your daughters (and sons) to go out on one-one dates? What age are group dates appropriate? How will you (or have you) handle(d) the dating age?