I love my new baby SOOO much!!! I love holding her and feeding her and doing all the motherly things. So, why is it that I fin myself crying on a daily basis. I feel like my husband is no help. It isn't until I am on the verge of a mental break down that he starts helping. I am constantly feeling insecure, sad, irritable, tired, and more than anything, I feel like a failure. I feel like I have failed at being a mom to both of my children. My 5 year old is craving attention from me, and I can give him the attention he deserves because the new baby is taking up all of my time and attention. And I feel like a bad wife because I am constantly picking fights with my husband for no reason at all. I just don't know what to do anymore.