why are men expected to change if the woman doesn't like something?

[notjstasocermom]

but the woman shouldn't have to? I see it all the time on here, woman gets upset about something then the man bashing begins, even over stupid little stuff. Ridiculous.  smh.

[Nothonnadoit]

Oh, that is totally reasonably!!!  I was thinking you meant he had to fold clothes a certain way and other anal things like that.  Lol

Quoting Dzyre1115:

 No kids, no previous marriages, no illegal drugs or previous issues with the law, a clean drivers license, a job, a car and no emotional insecurities.

Quoting Nothonnadoit:

What were your criteria?

Quoting Dzyre1115:

 I don't expect my husband to change, but my requirements as far a mate were concerned were set in stone when I met him, so he either conformed or he could go on his merry way.  He chose to conform!

 

[Anonymous]

Bump!

[zianneaaliyah]

Then you don't agree with the OP?  I mean, if the woman is expecting change because she's unhappy, then her getting it from some else shouldn't be a surprise to the man that don't want to change?

Quoting Anonymous:

Nobody should expect to be cheated on, but I think if you make your spouse miserable intentionally that you shouldn't act so surprised and hurt when they are appreciated elsewhere.

Quoting zianneaaliyah:

So this is the same for women, also?  A man should be concerned with a happy wife or expect to be cheated on, correct?

Quoting Anonymous:

Or how the women go through all the husband's stuff, treat them like shit, and then cry victim when he finds someone who treats him with respect. Happy men don't cheat!

[SnapIt]

Not all women will expect a man to change or will want to change him

I say women who change men are anal control freaks
Or
Spoiled brats