why does the label matter? she's still wrong for getting involved with him. there's plenty of blame to go around, i'm not sure why it matters who is "more" or "less" to blame. it's not okay to sleep with someone in a committed relationship.
I would blame them both. It would be one thing if she had no idea, but if she knew talk about getting some self respect. If every woman joined together and wouldn't sleep with another woman's husband, aka morals, we wouldn't have anything to worry about. Of course, that would never happen, but they're also at fault for allowing it to happen.
They are both to blame. If she knew he was married. Know if she did not and stopped when she found out. Then no she is not to blame.
Both of them did the deed so they are both equally guilty.
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If my husband cheated - I'd be pissed AT MY HUSBAND. Not the other woman. He and I have a commitment, not me and her.
She is equally at fault.
I agree with PP... if she is aware that he's married, she is betraying her own gender by sleeping with him and should be ashamed of herself. If he's an ass, he can go get it somewhere else or just pretend like he's not married, but if she enables him knowing he's destroying a family then she's just as much to blame for that destruction. If she doesn't want the blame, she can easily choose to f*** someone else.
Because its easier to demonized the, than your spouse.
Well when she is bragging about it she kind of brings it on herself, lol. The affair might not be only her fault but having no remorse definitely is.
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