Today C came to me pissed off. She said that S was talking to her and was REALLY insulting to her, but not just her! Me too! She was expressing her opinions of us in a very not nice way.
First- we are both SAHMs with 2 kids that are pretty much the same age. We are both Catholic, prolife, we both have college degrees, and are married to Black men while we are Mexican.
So S was saying how she didn't know how we are SAHMs without going crazy. That she's educated and has to "use her mind."
-uhm- we ARE educated! We both have degrees. We simply chose our kids over our careers.
Then she went on to talk about how she thought S and I had become not as good of friends as we were because when she had an abortion this year I wouldn't wish her luck! I told her I couldn't support her decision, but I would support her. I don't believe in abortion. That's all there is to it. But I love S and support HER. And she went on to ask C about her opinion. But with how S had talked about how I reacted, she said that S REALLY doesn't want to know what her opinion is.
Then S started talking about our kids, our family life, how we were putting it "all on our husbands" to support us, and how she was taught to be independent. And went on to talk about how our kids would be better in daycare! C got mad at this point and told her that we chose to raise our kid ourselves and not pay someone to do it. That we chose our family over working and since our husbands don't have a problem with it S should butt the hell out.
Then S says that she trusts me and when she decides to have a kid she knows she can trust me to take care of her baby while she works. C for madder and told her, see. You criticize us for being SAHMs but then say you would trust us with your kids because you know we are good moms! She was kind of pissed off!
Then S asks to smoke weed IN Cs house while her kids were home! I mean seriously? In someone's house at all is absurd, but while the kids are home? Ridiculous.
Now I'm not sure if I should confront S about her opinions of me or let it go. I'm the kin of person who would rather you tell me exactly how you feel to my face than behind my back. I don't care how insulting it might be. I an let it going its to my face, but begin my back pisses me off! DH says to forget it and he will learn soon enough when she finally has a kid. But idk. What do I do?