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my cousin is being a jerk

Anonymous
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We are out of state for the holiday. My aunt invited us to stay with her. She is so sweet to open up her home to us- especially with our baby. We have been helping around the house as much as possible to show appreciation. I'm blown away by my cousin's actions though. She has two kids- ages 16 and 18. Neither of them help around the house. They complain constantly. They act very spoiled.

Who spent 2hrs at the grocery store with her? We did. Who helped put $600 worth of food away? We did. Gladly! It was the least we could do. She said " my kids never help with this".
Last night, my (18yr old) cousin and his gf were discussing plans for that evening. He kept yelling at her. My son was in the next room asleep.... I didn't say anything because it's not my home- but my aunt told him to quiet down. Then he said "see? That's why they shouldn't be here." And "(friends) can't come over because of the effing baby"

Wtf? Seriously dude???
I just went to bed....... idk. He's just being such a jerk.

Vent over
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:10 AM
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scperdomo
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:12 AM
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The dude is 18, if he doesn't like it maybe he should get his own place. What an asshat.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:14 AM
Right?
He treats my aunt like dirt. Its so sad! :(

Quoting scperdomo:

The dude is 18, if he doesn't like it maybe he should get his own place. What an asshat.
blessed107
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:17 AM
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Good thing it's your aunt and not me. First of all no child of mine will ever disrespect me especially in my home no matter what age. If they ever dreamed of doing so, I would show them the door.

blessed107
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:18 AM

That's because she allows him to do so.

Quoting Anonymous:

Right?
He treats my aunt like dirt. Its so sad! :(

Quoting scperdomo:

The dude is 18, if he doesn't like it maybe he should get his own place. What an asshat.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:21 AM
I think she loves them so much... idk. When my uncle died it would have been nice to see them help out more (he was a sahd) but my aunt does it all alone. Working, cleaning, cooking.... I'm not sure if she's letting it go because we are here? Or if it's normal?

Idk *I* want to bitch at him to help, but I feel it's not my place. Kid needs a kick in the ass.

Quoting blessed107:

That's because she allows him to do so.

Quoting Anonymous:

Right?

He treats my aunt like dirt. Its so sad! :(



Quoting scperdomo:

The dude is 18, if he doesn't like it maybe he should get his own place. What an asshat.


mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:24 AM

 He is 18, young dumb and full of himself. Your aunt wants you there that is all that matters

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:25 AM
:) Thank you.


Quoting mommy_me:

 He is 18, young dumb and full of himself. Your aunt wants you there that is all that matters

blessed107
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:37 AM
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This is true! Lol!

Quoting Anonymous:

I think she loves them so much... idk. When my uncle died it would have been nice to see them help out more (he was a sahd) but my aunt does it all alone. Working, cleaning, cooking.... I'm not sure if she's letting it go because we are here? Or if it's normal?

Idk *I* want to bitch at him to help, but I feel it's not my place. Kid needs a kick in the ass.

Quoting blessed107:

That's because she allows him to do so.

Quoting Anonymous:

Right?

He treats my aunt like dirt. Its so sad! :(



Quoting scperdomo:

The dude is 18, if he doesn't like it maybe he should get his own place. What an asshat.



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