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How long could you stay in a sexless relationship/ marriage?

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Before you couldn't take it anymore and decided to leave?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:47 AM
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wyldebtrfly
by Silver Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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I'd talk to him. Find out what was going on. He could be depressed or upset about something.
I would tell my husband how i felt, explain my needs and go from there.

I wouldn't leave because sex isn't all that my marriage is about.

....though, i'd likely invest in some really great toys or something. 

smurfbitebug
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM
It depends on a lot of factors.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM

10 years....thus far. I hate every minute of it.

TheMrs407
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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Relationship, not long.  Marriage, forever...that's part of those vows.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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It would depend on the reasons that we weren't having sex. If dh was perfectly healthy and just denying sex to be a jerk and to try to hurt me then obviously there would be other issues in our marriage. If he was sick or injured then I would stay and be supportive. Dh went through something a few years ago that kept us from being intimate, it hurt our marriage tremendously but he sought help and we've rebuilt our marriage. Sex is important, its a huge part of staying intimately connected. Yes there are ways to stay intimate without sex but if the marriage and people involved in the marriage are healthy and happy, sex naturally follows
stacefaceninja
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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for me, it depends. If you don't wanna fuck me simply because I don't turn you on anymore, or you wanna bone some other chick, then I would be gone. Period. If he just physically couldn't? I would stay forever with DH. I have a hands...and he has the sexiest arms....

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:10 AM
Yes, but you still have intimacy. What if that was gone?


Quoting Anonymous:

I would stay. Like others ssaid sex isn't everything. SO and I don;t have the best sex life, but it's not sex less. I seemed to loose my drive after our miscarriage. Glad he's standing by me.


AshleyBDG
by Bronze Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:10 AM
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Haha. Exactly what I was going to say. Dittoo

Quoting Anonymous:

Forever. I would love that. Sex is messy and annoying.
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jedwards2009
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:10 AM
Three years... It was sexless because I caught him cheating and I didn't even want him to touch me. We had sex maybe five times in that last three years, and I didn't want it a single time, I did it more because I felt obgliated to on special occasions. And in the end it wasn't even the lack of sex that pushed me away, it was him flaunting his gf infront my teenage newphews that just pissed me off.
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Peytonsmommy310
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:10 AM
I wouldn't leave. Id love a sexless marriage.
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