I took my vows to stay with him forever, it's not about the sex (although sex is amazing) I wouldn't leave because of a lack of sex.
It's been a couple of years now. I will never leave, even if he never touches me again.
I currently live this way. There are other things in life besides sex. I will never leave. I love my husband and I am attracted to him. We are both just very stubborn and were on our own for too long. I want him to come on to be and be the agressor and he doesn't. We works too much and is tired and stuck in his routine. He have horrible communication skills but we are working on it. We have had sex three times in a year. All of those times my husband was drinking but was relaxed. He is very high strung. He has high blood pressure. I have thought of leaving but what the hell else is out there? We have been together since 2004 and I am about to turn 40. I just try to keep things in perspective and keep working on our relationship.
The positives about him are that he's a wonderful provider, a great father, he's smart, witty, funny and we have the best times when we go out on dates together. I have hope that things will improve. I am in no way wanting to leave. I can't imagine my life without him.
honestly it would depend on why.
If I was in that position I would get them the help they needed. If they refused to get help then I would let them know I would not stick around waiting for them. Sex is important for a healthy marriage.
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