It is about so much more than sex...I love my husband and I would not leave him over lack of sex
I wouldn't ever leave. My vows weren't ''or until you stop putting out''.
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forever,we have sex about once a month.I have no sex drive or no intrest in sex.plus his dick is so small I get no pleasure anyways.but sex is not what makes a marrige imo
Honestly I don't know. If it's medical or something then yeah, ok I get that. If he just doesn't want sex all of a sudden or something along those lines then I don't know. Sure sex isn't EVERYTHING, but sexual intimacy is important in a relationship and it's something I made very clear was expected. So, it would really depend on the circumstances and what was being done. DH and I have a very strong non sexual intimacy as well so it would really depend on the situation. Therefore I can't just give a straight answer on that one.
That depends on what he is doing otherwise. If he is still being loving, romantic, and intimate in other ways, I would stay. I don't need sex to be happy, I need intimacy and closeness, love. If he is cheating and THAT'S why no sex, fuck that. I'd cut and run. I don't forgive cheating.
Sex and intimacy are both very important components of a marriage. But as previously stated, I agree that sex isn't everything. I would not leave my husband for the lack of sex no matter the reason. I'm very committed to my vows and take them seriously. I believe in the strength of my marriage and know that my husband and I are strong enough together to overcome any obstacle.
He's perfectly healthy and just decided to become abstinent?
I'd leave as soon as he told me that. I have no desire to be in that kind of relationship.
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